Why It’s Crucial to Have Integrity in Work and in Life<\/h2>\n
One definition of integrity is being honest and having strong moral principles. These are of course important, but the other definition of integrity is being whole and complete<\/em>.<\/p>\n When you don\u2019t finish what you start, you simply lose pieces of your being; of who you really are in your completion. That doesn\u2019t feel very good and it certainly doesn\u2019t do you any good if you want to succeed at anything.<\/p>\n When you don\u2019t do what you say you\u2019re going to do, you lose confidence. Confidence comes from the Latin word confidere<\/em>, which means to trust. When you don\u2019t do what you said you were going to do, or you don\u2019t complete what you said you were going to complete, you start losing confidence in yourself. That cuts off your intuition, impedes actions negatively, and gets you stuck in the wrong habit cycle if you ever want to be consistently happy.<\/p>\n When someone else doesn\u2019t do what they say they\u2019re going to do, what happens? You think, \u201cUgh, how unreliable!\u201d Do you think it\u2019s different for you? When you don\u2019t do what you said you were going to do, pretty soon you start feeling really bad about you.<\/p>\n Conversely, once you start to do whatever it takes to keep your word, you feel good about yourself. That\u2019s going to spill over into every other part of your life. True or true?<\/p>\n The question becomes: what is stopping you from completing what you said you were going to do? Which part of you is not supportive of you keeping your word?<\/p>\n Sometimes it takes a lot of effort and time to uncover our unconscious motives and agendas, but just as patterns build up over time, we can also consciously break them.<\/p>\n We all have these parts of us; the wizard, the nurturer, the lover, and so on. Here we\u2019re dealing with the warrior. The warrior is a simple principle that says you must keep your word.<\/strong> Your word must become law in the universe for you.<\/p>\n From here on out, whatever it is you start: a book, a self-development course, a frickin\u2019 jigsaw puzzle … you finish. You don\u2019t do it for the book, or the program, or for whatever the outcome. That\u2019s a byproduct.<\/p>\n You do it to keep your word and have integrity.<\/em><\/p>\n If you cannot do what you said on the small things, what makes you think you\u2019re going to do what you said on the big things?<\/p>\n \u201cDo you know what? I\u2019m going to make $1 million this year.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n That\u2019s a big thing that you just said. At the same time, you just said that you\u2019re not going to drink Coke for the week, and what did you do? The next day you were drinking Coca-Cola.<\/p>\n The key to life is to discipline the part of you that is trying to take you out of your success. Put yourself into some practice.<\/p>\n Exercise: What\u2019s one habit that is really<\/em> not supporting you?<\/strong><\/p>\n Is it looking at your emails on your computer as soon as you get out of bed, before you even brush your teeth and go to the bathroom? That\u2019s a bad habit. That just sucks, okay? I know because I used to have that habit. A lot of people do.<\/p>\n Tame one unsupportive habit for one week to gain confidence and trust in yourself. Start with something doable.<\/strong><\/em> Tell us how it goes. We want to hear from you!<\/p>\n For Your Freedom,<\/p>\n As someone who has been in the self-development business for over a very, vert long time… I\u2019ve just about seen and heard it all. One common thing that I see again and again–much to my heartbreak–are those people who start either mine or someone else\u2019s program that they told me they had signed up for,…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":5181,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[12,17,3,5],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-1427","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-business","8":"category-entrepreneurship-2","9":"category-mindset","10":"category-personal-development","11":"entry"},"yoast_head":"\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/www.harveker.com\/blog\/wp-content\/blogs.dir\/4\/files\/2017\/10\/Finish-line-1024x768.jpg\")
<\/p>\nWhat’s Stopping You From Finishing What You Started?<\/h3>\n
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