Confidence. It’s a powerful word derived from the Latin word “confidere,” which means “to trust.” To feel self-confident is basically trusting yourself. Can you remember a time in your life when you felt the power of confidence? A time when you felt unstoppable… on top of the world?
Now, imagine you could feel that powerful feeling more often. What impact would that have on your career? Your relationships? Your choices?
Being confident helps you trust yourself. It gives you the courage to seize opportunities, take more chances, and reach the next level in your life.
But how do you find the confidence that you’ve been lacking? How do you move beyond the feelings of self-doubt and insecurity that are holding you back? The answer lies in understanding your mind.
Your mind’s primary focus is survival. While it helps keep you safe, it can also prevent you from asking for that promotion, approaching an attractive person, or starting your own business.
But there’s a way to train your mind… and it begins with trust.
In this video, I’ll share my top 5 tips for developing confidence so you can go for any goal in life… and succeed!
How to Be More Confident in 5 Steps
Now that you’ve watched the video, you can begin using these tips to become more confident in your own life:
1. Get Experience
There’s truth in the old saying, “experience is the best teacher.” In order to trust yourself and your abilities, you have to have a track record of success. While trust isn’t built overnight, it is honed by taking small steps and focusing on the small victories. Eventually, those small wins add up!
2. Keep Learning
Nobody ever does anything well the first time they try. At least not without having a little bit of help. To be confident, you have to know what you know! Ask a mentor, read and research, and do whatever is necessary to get the information you need. At the end of the day, knowledge always conquers fear!
3. Gain Momentum
I have a saying, “One step in the right direction is worth 100 years of thinking bout it.” You can think about being successful your entire life, but until you take the first step, you’ll never get there.
Start small, but move forward. Your movement creates momentum, and that’s how you become more confident!
4. Trust Yourself
Your mind has a voice, and sometimes, that voice is negative. You think, “what if I fail?” or “what if this doesn’t work?” This type of mental chatter paralyzes you and keeps you stuck in your comfort zone.
While most people beat themselves up for these feelings, that’s the opposite of what you should do to settle these feelings. What’s more effective is to treat your mind with respect and make it feel good about what you are doing.
One of my favorite techniques is simply saying these four magic words: “Thank you for sharing”, and then act anyway.
5. Know That You Can Handle What Happens
Sometimes, things just don’t work out the way we plan. And if we really want it to work we’re left feeling unhappy, embarrassed, and stuck.
But by understanding that the result is not always something you can control, you can let go of those feelings quickly and not let them bother you so much.
Trust that you are on the path that is right for you. Don’t focus on the result, focus on the process and watch as your confidence continues to grow. You have the power to create the life you want to live. So don’t let anything bring you down.
Final Thoughts On Becoming More Confident…
To become confident and not let fear get in the way of what you want, first understand how your mind works… and then master it. Figuring this out – and helping others understand it – has been the great work of my life.
If you’d like to dive deeper into discovering how to take control of your fear-based mind, push past any limiting beliefs holding you back, and become unstoppable, I’ve got something you’re going to love.
I reveal important mindset principles that have fueled my own journey to wealth and success in my signature web class:
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I want to share this information with you… for FREE.
Before I became successful, I made a promise to the universe that if I ever made it in life, I would help others do the same. And this is part of my fulfillment of that oath.
I hope you’ll join me. I know you’ll be glad you did. Take the first step in trusting yourself by signing up to start building that muscle and change your life.
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Whether you decide to register or not, we’d love to hear from you. What has helped you build confidence? Share in the comments below!
Thank you for everything T. I started since the first day that your team sent me your video to change my life in honor to thank you i will work until i become super succesful and happy in anything i want
I like it this information you share is realy helpfull i be honest… Sometime i fear the the unknow, but something pull me forward… Also i read one book of you.
Mente millonaria realy fantastic. Thats how i feed my mind with your book… Thanks harv
No one deny that harv eker words can change ur mind up set down
The only one thing that has helped me to build confidence is doing the work and taken action in my presenting the work for public view. As a visual artist, there is the dear of rejection. I fear ,doubt and worry about rejections but whenever I swing into action the fear disappears.
I believe I am brought by many good things in the universe, success will come to those who love, cherish what is developing, gratitude for the universe, gratitude for those who inspire me, the day live more beautiful
I agree that experience is very important, it gives confidence to do what we used to do with fear and experience to do it without fear, but I really felt confident when I read one very interesting book after reading it, I told myself what would I do, I will be successful and a rich man still has this feeling I have your books give me strength too for moving forward, thank you for your experience that you share.
Я согласен что опыт очень важен он дает уверенность делать то что мы раньше делали со страхом с опытом делать это без страха но действительно я почувствовал себя уверенным когда то прочитав одну очень интересную книгу после прочтения ее я сказал себе чем бы я не занимался я буду успешным и богатым человеком до сих пор это чувство у меня есть ваши книги мне тоже очень сильно придают силы для движения вперед спасибо Вам за ваш опыт которым Вы делитесь.
I have been practicing every day all the advice you give to overcome a millionaire mind thinking over actions and circumstances and they really work. 2 years ago I was also broken and I start with a millionaire mine thought and now I’m living and enjoying the road the become better.
Thank you T. Harv Eker
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Someday I would like to finally meet you have lunch or a cup a coffee.
This is great. I am inspired.
Very good I like it.
Quite revealing & interesting.
No doubt very effective principles too.
Thanks for sharing
Lamentablemente el video se habla en ingles y los subtitulos están en ingles, te desafío a que uses tu inteligencia y seas capaz de presentar un video con subtitulo en español.
Hace años que te planteo lo mismo, hace cosas en otro idioma, no solo en ingles.
Thank you very much.
Thank you…i read at perfect moment when i feel unconfident in my career.
Being able to live one day @ a time and not drink. Ten and a half years and counting.
Amen.
Thank you sir
This is great indeed because I have discovered that confidence is everything. When the fear of beginning is conquered, a conqueror emerges.
Thank you for sharing these steps
I am occupying a challenging and demanding position at work
It is new to everyone but these 5 steps are encouraging me to move forward
Thanks once more I am also making my responsibility to teach others what I know
I agree! Thanks for giving us this information in a very simple and understandable way. Don´t think you need music on the back of the video, I think it distracts a little, at least that happened to me. I love when you feel passionate while explaining! Greetings!
You said one way to train the mind begins with trust. Trust in oneself, myself. Keep learning and sharing the knowledge to others. I usually say in my own little way. Now I should say I’m really sharing so that the knowledge/information will grow thru other people’s understanding and would continuously expand.
Thank you,
Harve Eker is a great teacher of all time, he make me to become more strong in my success journey. His mentorship build my confidence thanks to him.
Am proud to be member of this great platform, T I u are super natura to my progress, from u I become a consultant on business, confidentiality, mature thought and talented to my boss, I started with you since 2015 till date and I will continue with till infinity. Proudly NIGERIAN.
Mr. Harv Eker. Appreciate you so much. I am so glad to connect you. You are a genuine energizer.
Hola soy de peru tengo 20 años , un chico con bastante energia para emprender , quiero crecer como humano y financieramente para ayudarme a mi , ami familia y comunidad , todo es ingles y queria consultarle si existe una plataforma subtitulada o en español para que nos puedas ayudar a los hispanohablantes?