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Home » The No. 1 Enemy Holding You Back From Living The Life You Truly Want

The No. 1 Enemy Holding You Back From Living The Life You Truly Want

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November 12, 2019 By T. Harv Eker 15 Comments

What is it you really want in life? More money? More success? Better relationships? More inner peace? Or maybe just better health?

If so, then you’re like most other people in this world. And maybe, you’ve even gone as far as to stop and ask yourself, “What’s keeping me from achieving what I want?”

I’m sure you can find plenty of reasons why you haven’t been as successful as you’d like. Maybe you tell yourself it’s the other people on your team at work. Or other members of your family. Maybe you blame the economy or the market for the fact that you may be still struggling.

But in my experience, it’s never any of those factors that are the issue.

Yes, those issues can have an effect on your life. But they aren’t the real problem — and there is a real problem. It’s actually the root cause of all of your problems.

In this 3.5 minute video (a sneak peek of my free web class) I’m going to reveal the real reason why you may not be living up to your own expectations and how you can change it.

This isn’t something you normally hear, and it’s certainly not taught in any schools… but once you watch the video it will all make sense.

Watch the video below to learn:

  • [00:23] — The most important question you can ask yourself about why you don’t have the success you want in life.
  • [00:47] — Why everything you have or don’t have in your life is a result of who you are on the inside.
  • [01:14]  — An important law of life that you must understand.
  • [02:09] — The real reason why you don’t have everything that you say you want.
  • [02:42] — Your #1 worst enemy that can wreak havoc on your life — whether you realize it or not.
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Does the video sound familiar? I thought it might. I’ve been where you are now. Every time I found success, something would happen to send me back to square one.

It felt like every time I took 1 step forward, I then took 2 steps back. No matter what I did I never made any real progress towards the things I wanted in my life.

This caused me to be broke financially, broke emotionally, and broke spiritually. As a result, I was never fully happy. And guess what? This went on for more than a decade until I learned that I was my own #1 enemy… and then went on to learn how to tame this enemy (my mind).

Are you ready to take full control of your life and show your mind who’s boss, once and for all?

If you said “Yes!”, then I have great news for you. I’m here to help.

While watching this video is a great first step toward understanding the reasons you may not be finding the success you want, for 90% of people, just knowing there’s a problem isn’t enough.

The truth is, most of us struggle to overcome our mind’s survival instincts. And that means we never really learn to quiet the fear and doubt keeping us from success.

Which is why I created this free web class called, 

Don’t Believe A Thought You Think:
The Greatest Secret to Life

In this web class, I’m going to show you proven techniques and strategies that you can use to instantly quiet your mind and act in spite of any fears, doubts or worries. Good or good?!

On this web class, you’ll also learn:

  • How to increase your inner strength and confidence to take on any challenge that stands in the way of reaching your peak potential.
  • How to become incredibly trustworthy using T. Harv Eker’s universal law so that you don’t only trust yourself, but also gain respect and trust from others.
  • How to unleash your “inner warrior” and empower yourself to take unconditional action in spite of your fears, doubts, barriers, and obstacles.
  • How to become crystal clear about what you want, need, and deserve, so you can actually achieve your goals (instead of just dreaming about them).

Click here to register or select a date and time below that works best for you. See you there!

What did you think about the video above? Are you living life to its fullest by taking control of your #1 enemy – your mind? Leave a comment below!

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  1. Patricia says

    August 28, 2017 at 1:53 pm

    Quisiera asistir pero estoy sin ninguna blanca y soy de Paraguay ??
    Ojalá algún día vinieras a mi país!!

    Reply
  2. janet says

    September 7, 2017 at 12:54 pm

    Trying and wishing to get to a new level all around takes me back to my grandfather. Didnt know him well before he passed at an early age, he was always working. He had several businesses which left little time elsewhere. So I go back to theres so many hours in a day and how do people make it work without being married to a job?I hear….if you want to be successful , sleep less. work more sigh. Yes my mind is working in over time right now. Trying to learn how to combine it all and make it work seems impossible. Does letting go of fear mean giving up everything you have currently and starting over?! Jumping off high places(tony robbins). Im not a thrill seeker lol, but a peaceful soul. Ugh….just trying to figure all of this out. Thanks so much,Peace out & namaste.

    Reply
  3. Lance Kindred says

    April 9, 2018 at 8:40 am

    Harv,

    Great video. You are spot on!

    I am NOT living to the fullest. Your “weeds” analogy at the end was perfect. My mind is choked with limiting beliefs.

    Would love to consume your content next week for help in changing…everything in my life.

    Regards,
    Lance Kindred

    Reply
  4. WIlliam says

    April 9, 2018 at 9:05 am

    I always work hard push and push., my main fear has been always running out of money.. so in my bussiness i have to invest or otherwise it dies.., long time ago i was jobless and pennyless and this fact.. affected me very badly and now i still cant get rid off this feeling.. which now this days doesent let me improve.. what is there to do to get this feeling out of my life?

    Reply
  5. WIlliam says

    April 9, 2018 at 9:07 am

    always work hard push and push., my main fear has been always running out of money.. so in my bussiness i have to invest or otherwise it dies.., long time ago i was jobless and pennyless and this fact.. affected me very badly and now i still cant get rid off this feeling.. which now this days doesent let me improve.. what is there to do to get this feeling out of my life?

    Reply
  6. WIlliam says

    April 9, 2018 at 9:12 am

    I own a bussiness.., and due it need investiing capital…, i get the feeling that i may run out of money.. so my bussiness doesent go the rigth way.. in the past i went jobless and run out of money… had to start again, did so.. but i cant get this feeling of beeing without money out of my life., so i don dare to invest in my bussiness.. so it doesent run well.. can you help me to improve ?

    Reply
  7. WIlliam says

    April 9, 2018 at 10:25 am

    HOW can i overcome fear of running without money… ?

    Reply
  8. Elmira says

    April 9, 2018 at 10:56 am

    I’m learning everything and changing my mind. I try my best, because I obviously see that I have lack of knowledge in business and lack of confidence in myself).

    Reply
  9. Conny says

    April 9, 2018 at 11:34 am

    This is very true. I agree with the video clip on every level. Our limiting beliefs, perceptions from other people or family and friends keep us in that box. It’s fulfilling expectations others have of us but what about YOU, YOU as a person? Your inner self wants to explore but often we put a stop to it because of other people. Believe in yourself, trust what you feel and want and desire is who you are. Put fear aside and step out of your comfort zone. Don’t visualise any doubts. Nurture that inner child as this child is speaking the truth.
    Thank you for the clip.

    Reply
  10. ALDO says

    April 9, 2018 at 11:55 am

    Tus vídeos están en ingles y con subtitulo también en ingles, favor deja abierta la opción para cambiar los subtítulos al español.

    Reply
  11. MARIA HORNUNG says

    April 9, 2018 at 2:50 pm

    In the recent years I have pushed myself to get out of my comfort zone and getting into areas that in the past I never imagined I could have ever been, like for example talking to an audience. However, my problem is that I haven’t found what is this that I really enjoy doing and use it as a source of living. I want to be happy by doing something that I love and get paid for that.

    Reply
  12. Wirat W. says

    April 9, 2018 at 8:51 pm

    So True … A word of wisdom ….
    Inner World creates Outer World !!!
    My Life is Brilliant: !!!

    Reply
  13. Isidoro Alvarez says

    April 10, 2018 at 2:26 pm

    Nunca he podido enderesar mi vida economica. Vivo de una pequeña pension. A los tres ya no tengo nada. ¿A mi edad podré mejorar lo que me queda de vida, para ayudar a mi familia? Dime por favor.

    Reply
  14. Prasit Khotchakhot says

    June 27, 2019 at 6:46 pm

    Are you living life to its fullest by taking control of your #1 enemy – your mind?
    I am.
    I always come back to your book to stimulate my mind to focus on taking actions necessary in realizing what what I really want in life. Time and again my consistency doesn’t last long enough to produce desire results.
    Consistency is my integral problem.

    Reply
  15. Alexia Franklin says

    September 1, 2019 at 3:45 am

    Hi Harv

    Yes I do believe in the millionaire mindset I know I will achieve it, and I will do whatever it takes, and yes I do know what it is like to lose everything and I have rebuilt my life but I know this has to be worked on every day in every way possible,
    Thank you for giving me the opportunity to work with you the day I stop learning is the day I will stop earning.

    Reply

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