Facing the Consequences
One of the most impactful words in our language is consequences—this concept that action means something because it creates reactions, results: consequences. When we think of “facing the consequences,” that usually means something “bad.”
Likewise, inaction has consequences in that if we don’t do certain things that can also affect our lives, and sometimes with the greatest negative consequences.
However, there can be good consequences when we face up to the choices and decisions that we’ve been putting off. Every change in life happens when our mind collides with a new idea and goes off in a different direction. Once that happens, there are an infinite number of possible consequences that can happen.
In this sense, it’s pretty elegant but simple proof that you don’t necessarily have to be super smart to create the possibilities you want—though education, intelligence, and wisdom can’t hurt. You don’t have to be super-certain—though confidence and courage help more often than hinder.
Successful people are successful because they do more things that increase the probabilities that they will achieve the success they want. The probabilities say that if you try enough things in the right ways, eventually you’ll try the right thing at the right time with the right result for you.
One of the things I’ve found with regard to new ideas is that smart people continually move themselves within a stream—where they are connecting with the right people and events serendipitously, simply because of a decision they may have made years ago that brought them to that spot. At some point that person said, “Yes, I think I’ll try this and commit to it.”
They’re in a flow where the people, and the situations, and the ideas are colliding and pin-balling back and forth. The downside to that is it can be over-whelming sometimes, causing paralysis because all these ideas sound good but—jack of all trades, master of none.
The upside is that you can never tell which idea is going to be the one you need at that time. You only know that if you increase the number of ideas, the likelihood or probability that you’ll get the right idea at the right time goes up dramatically.
And sometimes all you need is one new idea to change the whole course of your life. One small change in the ingredients can change your whole world, or maybe impact the world. We’re seeing proof positive of that across a whole region of the globe today.
Bernard Baruch, one of the wealthiest men in America back in the day, started off penniless. When asked what was the key to becoming wealthy he said, “The starting point to becoming wealthy is to decide to become wealthy.” Look at his consequences.
The average self made millionaire goes broke two or three times throughout the course of his or her lifetime, which means there’s hope for all of us. Most Americans start off broke but like it so much they keep going back to it throughout their lives. Break the cycle.
What were some of the most powerful consequences of a decision that you made in your life? What other possibilities opened up for you? Share your experiences with the Millionaire Mind community. We want to hear from you!







This makes me think of the statement that we make our own luck.
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Like I posted on Facebook, I am CONVINCED that my money thermostat will be RAISED thanks to your The Millionaire Mind Intensive in November! Now reading your article, I understand that in this SUCCESS JOURNEY, I am getting to the point that I am DOING/trying the RIGHT thing @ the RIGHT time, to- precisely- get the RIGHT RESULTS! Thank you, T. Harv!
smart people continually move themselves within a stream—where they are connecting with the right people and events serendipitously.. Enlightening words!
The ‘program’ I became as a child experience is to
essentially jump off a cliff and figure out how to land on the way down. Growing wings, finding a convenient limb to
swing from, creating a parachute from what I jumped with… there are numerous
ways to fly and I have crashed too, both the unnoticed and the spectacular. I have been in a card game with my mind [it
holding all the aces] that until my recent MMI weekend I never noticed that after
every win it always chuckles ‘so what’ after every success effectively stealing
every sense of accomplishment and fulfillment. That wouldn’t be so bad if it didn’t infect
everyone else’s too or blind me from even noticing how remarkable peoples
accomplishments are. The decision to
attend MMI is the breakthrough experience I’ve been preparing myself for. I am the decision to be wealthy. Prior to the weekend it was only one choice
of many outcomes that were allowed. I am taking back the entire deck of cards and I
will reprogram the entire set of scripts for wonderful outcomes. One of my favorite scripts is to be
nobody. You may have heard of me, nobody
is smarter, nobody can do this, nobody will get this done and a number of others
not as endearing. I see
I can keep all the best parts and reprogram the rest for the best of me, my
family and my friends and our world. How
cool is that!?
Becoming an ESL teacher and a homeschooling parent are some of the most powerful consequences that came from decisions in my life.
I started by giving and giving more of my ideas, energy into the school, my students, my community; and I obeyed my intuitions (my heart) even when I kept getting stone-walled. And this is one area where Asia stands shoulder-to-shoulder with the US, unfortunately, : we are a century behind in how we are educating our young.
Eventually, 2 years ago I was asked to present at a paid workshop; just because I kept giving out so much free advice 1-on-1 some people thought more should hear me at once and pay for the privilege. That workshop attracted the future leaders of the H/s community in my country or at least the 6-degrees of separation from those who attended. The consequence of that is now I have a community that trusts me and I can get ideas from to eventually formulate into a product or service that can be monetized and also a small ready-made database. More importantly than size these individuals are powerful Trust Agents in their communities.
Another consequence comes from how I am completely unashamed in sharing my truths and my passion about education – when meeting people, in several blogs I keep, etc. It makes me convincing to others even on days I don't feel convinced. It makes it look as if the future is already here or that I am presenting them with solutions to problems they never really knew we were facing, or problems people sensed but could not articulate. I frame a problem and sell them a solution. I didn't know it was that easy to raise Rm1million over a few dinners. Paid by the people giving me the money.
I think the next decision I'll have to make that will have consequences is which of Harv's seminars to take in order to make sure I can monetize this capital that's been thrown at me. From Zero to Rm3.5million in 2 and a half years or less, right?
I'm sharing positive consequences, not because negative ones that are caused by inaction never occurred in my life but because I don't want to relive them – if I'm not interested in my own “story” no one would be either :).
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I believe I can write a book on the powerful consequences of decisions that I have made over my lifetime. These decisions had one and only one thing in common. They ALWAYS pushed me out of my comfort zone into a completely different zone.As a child, I saw my mum being unhappy about my sister and me not getting good grades. I remember clearly that sad face when she had to sit at the principal's office with me and listen to “I expect more from your child”. I was in the 5th grade. I was determined then never ever to see that look on her face and how I felt in me. I have never looked back since, Education and self improvement has been my peace and joy. It took the decision to study and learn and grow. I went from barely making passing grades to being honor student with 4.0 GPA in undergraduate school in India, and then on to full scholarship Masters in computer science in the USA. I have enjoyed and loved each day of that growth.
With my first job I decided to buy my first house within 5 years. Planned and saved and bought it in 5.5 years with exactly one loan with one bank.
Sixteen years back when I came to the US, I decided that this was the lifestyle I wanted, this was the country I wanted to live in and I was willing to take all the steps that took to get from a student visa to a US Citizen. 2011, I became an US Citizen going from each and every step of the dotcom bust, losing my job, getting another better one, taking paycuts, taking bonuses and everything in between.
Like I said, I could go on and on and on. I am grateful for each and every day, because it will teach me, push me and grow me. It will make me make decisions that is a paving the way for my future and I trust it and love it for that.
a thousand miles starts with a single step
We write our own screenplay of the life!
Dear Harv, thank you SO MUCH for everything you are doing! It's so inspiring!I attended the 3-day Millionaire Mind Cours in Berlin and in London this year and this has changed my life. I registered for the Quantum Leap in London also. Only the wish to take a part in the Warrior cource took me to the decision to register… without having the money.
Your book I found 2 years ago and it has change my life too.
When I was 16 years old the decision to becom a ski teacher changed my life also, it was at the end af the communism in Sofia/Bulgaria, when to becom a ski teacher without beeing a ski competitor and not having connections was count for impossible. But I become a ski teacher at age of 17 and worked for 4 years with foreign (english) tourists (what was impossible bevor).
The decision to study in Germany changed my life. And again, for me, without any support (money) to study in Germany was count for impossible.
To apply in a filmakademie in Ludwigsburg/ Germany changed my life vorever!!! To PERMIT my self to do what I love, to draw, to show all my brilliant ideas, changed my life (until that moment I've studied economics, because I was ever driven from my mother into the “right” direction not to become an artist without money!!).
I've done animations (2d and 3d) and was elected between 300 from 1000 applicants at this filmakademie, considering I've done my application only for 2 months and never done this bevor !! (It's a long story with many other obstacles bevor…when everything seemed absolutly unthinkable… not having a work visa to do this training, at the same time I had have to work and earn money to live, to change from economics to advertising…). But at the second election I was'n choosen to study at this film akademie. Of course for a very long time the world was broken for me.
I've done a documentary film about Bulgaria only one year later (I've done a media master program at another school). I've done EVERYTHING by my self (interviewed the first bulgarian President after the communism, the Chef of the syndicate (traide union…) and considering I've learned everything I needed on my own, during different trainings, after many sleepless nights …
My decision to do a training at Council of Europe in Strasbourg at Eurimages (funding European Film Co-productions). Where I've done a incredible catalogue for them and the Stand for the film festival in Cannes… my first professional works in the advertising – considering this was my very first work and I've done this catalogue from a pure entusiasm (it started just as a proposition from me and became great). Nobody has ever showed me how to do a print bevor (I just read about it I have watched others how they do this- and at that moment I saw the opportunity to try doing it by my self).
And my last decision in the last time to change completly my life and to do what I love – to comit myself to all my brilliant ideas, which I didn't realised until now, because I ever listend to the other people’s oppinions (like my mother ever done) and was still under the influence of my parents.
It's incredible how ALL THIS wrong (for us) thinking of our parents is destroing und ruining our lifes!!!!
Now I'm realising that hole my life I've tried to be a good girl, not to disappoint my mother, who ever said “she has done everything for me, she gave her life for me …” and she has really done it! She sacrificed herself, she never done what she desired, but was occupied to have two jobs to earn very hard more and more money and provide me with apartments… she never simply asked me “what I want”. The results – the hole familie is badly quarrelled. And I felt myself ever obligated and very bad because I can’t help my parents…
It’s sooo DIFFICULT first do detect that you are under this non supporting influence and second to come out of it and to be yourself!!!
Thank you !!!
Desislava Reichert
I could try to write impresive things that actually I think of myself but just to resume, I am a middle-class mexican guy, average smart, who immigrate to Canada, I speak and write 3 languages (Spanish, French and english) I have worked in places where I have used the 3 of them , 2 at the same time (and I am not a traslator), I also trade the forex market since 2008 and my latest and so far biggest consequence is the child my life-partner and I are expecting…alleluia!
hi Eker,
nice post thanks for shearing
Seb
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