If You Want To Be Successful, You Better Have A Damn Good Reason To Be

Let’s consider motivation.
Imagine you’re in a hole that you can barely see out of. Somebody comes along and instead of pulling you out, they wave a $100 bill at you (They’re not being mean; they’re trying to teach you something).
It’s a little hard to get out, but out of determination, or whatever it is that fuels you, and with a little extra effort, you eventually scramble out.
Now take this picture to another level. What if it was a $1,000 dollars? You’d scramble even harder, yes?
Now what if it was a $1 million dollars that is being held up in front of you, and they said, “If you can get out of there in the next 10 seconds, you’ve got this $1 million?”
You’d fly outta that ditch, wouldn’t you? Why? It’s because you’ve got a good reason.
And to be clear, the reason isn’t the million dollars itself. Those are just pieces of paper. Because somebody who had no idea what money meant would do what with it? Burn it to get kindling going? Blow their nose with it?
The reason you are motivated to get out of the ditch is because you know exactly what you could do with that million dollars.
You know the impact it can make on your life…
You know what security it can bring…
And you know the status and freedom it may bring…
So this brings me to the point of all of this…
What is your purpose for what you want?
In other words, why do you want to do what you want to do? Is it for your family? To prove something? So you don’t have to answer to a boss anymore? Because owning a yacht and travelling the world sounds fun? Be honest!
I’ll use myself as an example. When I was broke, it would be easy to get stuck because I would be very upset with what was going on. I was disappointed in myself. There were all of these “shoulds” and expectations. It was draining.
I had 12 businesses and 14 different jobs. Why would I keep getting back on the horse every time I kept falling off and getting slapped in the face?
It’s because at the time there were two things driving me. First was my value of freedom. I could not bear to think that I would have to be slaving away for the rest of my life in a job working for somebody else. I’m just unemployable. It cannot work for me at all.
The second driver wasn’t exactly an enlightened kind of purpose, but it was proving myself. I was attempting to prove to my parents that I was okay, that I was not going to be a bum because that’s what they said I was going to be if I didn’t finish school. That drove me, and I kept getting up when I didn’t want to get up.
I always say that I think I’m a decent teacher because I was in such rough shape before, and I’m in really good shape now. I really know the difference between what I did then and what I do now.
It was making a decision to work on myself, to train my mind and to finally say, “This next business is going to work, and I am going to stick with it until it does, even if it takes my entire life. I will make it work, and it’s going to work.”
One of my most important values became commitment. My word became LAW, there was no breaking it.
I did what I said I would do, period end of story, no excuses EVER.
That was the difference maker that took my “why’s” to another level.
That was the first time I ever said that after 12 businesses. Do you know what happened? In two and a half years, I become a millionaire.
Why you do what you do is the fuel that will get your ass outta bed every day to do better, be better, and to avoid getting stuck.
Never forget why you’re doing what you’re doing, and you’ll eventually get there.
What’s most important to you? What is it, deep down in your soul, that’s more important to you than money? Is it honesty? Integrity? Compassion? Keeping family together? What is it that, if you compromised this aspect of yourself, you’d have a harder time looking at yourself in the mirror?
Again, let’s be real with each other! It’s not about right or wrong; it’s about what serves and what doesn’t. What’s the fuel that keeps your engine pumping? Share your thoughts with us…we want to hear from you!!!
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Buenas tardes,
Primeramente me gustaría pedirles que enviaran sus mails traducidos al castellano o catalán, pues el traductor de google hace estragos.
Quiero ser millonaria para sentirme libre y plenamente tranquila con las decisiones que tomo, para poder aportar a mis hijos aquello que necesiten para conseguir su sueño y preservar su alegría y salud, para asegurar una placentera vejez a mis padres, para poder subir el sueldo a mis colaboradores, para tener tiempo para dedicármelo a mi y a mis seres queridos y para empoderar a todos aquellos quieran sentir alegría, paz y tranquilidad en su alma y aportar a aquellos que quieran aprender como VIVIR la vida sintiéndose creativos.
Marta, please learn English. I took that endeavour also, it’s not my mother tongue even. If everybody talks in her own language, no one can understand each other. English is the language spoken by most and you will need it for most internet applications. I’d like to understand you better, than is resulting from my poor Italian and Spanish knowledge. Do us the favour, please. Thank you.
I want to learn, train my consciousness and have free room to breathe and to be creative, and to think and say whatever I want.
Excelent article – sucess depends on good reasons for it!
FIRST – Why you want what you want? WHY – purpose.
SECOND – commitment.
THIRD – to train the mind
“THIS IS IT”
Thanks you the warning. You saved me some time and money!
I want prove to my child that is possible to move my life and her life.And so they can do anythings in life after this exemple.
This is simply amazing
Great article.
The fuel is definitely love that I have for myself.
Awesome stuff !! Harv. I am only a ”stone throw away” to my Financial freedom !!!! Years of damn hard work. These last couple of days got me down and depressed. After reading your letter, I am BACK ON TRACK. God Bless you. I will keep you informed about my progress. Herman from South Africa.!!
Year ago..I somehow given it up as I could see if I made good for myself it makes someone else struggle….but after year or so…while I was standing at the edge and looking for what I consider as a meaning of the whole life in kinda spiritual way…Irealised. All the people who are englightened have everything they need..So I have asked…what do I need?. Here I stand right now…unblocking all the stuff from my mind…as deep inside I know I always was better…I could find more details that anyone could think of…notice…I know I am really good and the motivation to me is to NOT TO BE DEPENDENT ON THOSE whome I consider not so skilled that I am..IF anyone can help me here…I would be more than grateful. It is always best to get reply on the very MINE question. So just to summarize I know about my skills, I know deep inside I can do great….BUT what is the stone this little stone that is keeping me from my first step to financial freedom?
My reason is to have FINANCIAL FREEDOM so i can be able to do what i want or feel like doing at any time.
This is correct, we need a razon for up in the moorning and live…live completely
Deep down in my soul, happiness and freedom are much more important than money.
I am alergic to the status quo it bores me to tears, powerful innovation drives me to be better and do better. Creating the uncreated brings me alive, game changing results inspire and fulfil me!
My why is to have financial freedom and to able to give as needed to other.
To be able to visit my family more often (they live overseas) and the freedom of working for myself – I am also unemployable now! I want to feel secure and know that all my needs are met and that I can contribute to others who maybe are not so fortunate.
Hi Harv
My freedom and peace of mind Lol and like you I’m just ungovernable..thanks a million times Harv
A great article.
You are perfectly right…
We do what we do for a purpose.
my reason, financial independence. I can do things i wanted to do and would love it if i can contribute to the community.
The reason I get out of my bed everyday even if it’s harder some days is because I want to like in the mirror one day and I never gave up on this girl and gave her the best cos she deserved it, I want to inspire my siblings to be better and finally, I work hard for my money cos I know one day am going to demand it does the same for me.
My fuel is: my financial freedom and your second drive(mentioned above). My main value is: integrity. Thanks a lot, Harv. I really believe in what you teach. Your book helped me a lot. I still have problems with saving money.
thank you .
i Look for my financial freedom from an early Odevri .
I worked hard
I tried every time to get different results, but unfortunately it was necessary to change the ideas first. The intention.am MULTIMILLIONAIRE
I want to be a millionaire to show my children how it can be done, teach them money management lessons, and be able to spend quality time with them. I want to give money to worthy causes, teach others how to achieve wealth, and read and write my own books.
The purpose that you give to your life’s purpose is the key to making your life work right for you. Everyone’s purpose is different. Follow your heart and you can’t go wrong.
I want to be able to do what I want when I want and afford ro give my family all they need. I dont like looking at my beloved helplessly when they have financial needs. And taking those holidays I can only dream of would be great
As a teacher my goal is not to teach knowledge, but to teach how to think so my students can get the knowledge. Running my own school and teaching languages has proved to be a great way of getting financial success so far, and still lots to come.
Marta, el inglés te salvará la vida algún día, no lo dejes para más tarde y deja de pedir que te traduzcan! Merece la pena, creeme.
Well said. Teach a man how to think and he will be able to gain the specific knowledge he needs to alter his destiny.
exactly what I needed to read at this moment as I just recently decided to step out and start a new business venture and am starting to waver a little as it is not monetizing it self as quickly I anticipated it would. But “This next business is going to work, and I am going to stick with it until it does, even if it takes my entire life. I will make it work, and it’s going to work.”
“I did what I said I would do, period end of story, no excuses EVER.” – Yes!
Motivations for me is financial freedom.
Also having to meet great people with great integrity and learn from them. To travel great places and serve people.
My why is so that I can do art from home and never to work a regular day job again. Even though i am a good employee and a team player, I actually hate having a boss. I hate having to drive to work, i hate having to make a schedule around my job. Why? My freedom has been compromised. That precious time is wasted on something else that isnt my art. Leaving to go to work after spending 3-4 hours doing art is the worst feeling for me.
I’m on the right track, I’ve got my list of art clients ready and hammering out my portfolios. It’s still gonna take a bit of time but I’m on my way and reading these articles along with all your other material keeps me motivated and focused!
Thanks Harv!
Quiero ser millonario, para hacerle un aporte a este mundo y dejar un legado. “La equidad sí es posible”.
Como resultado obtendré libertad financiera, cambiaré mi calidad de vida y la de mi familia radicalmente. Y ayudaré a millones de personas a cumplir sus sueños y cambiar su realidad de vida (desde que cada quien desee hacerlo).
Thank you for giving me a reason to find the focus again in my life and to become the person I choose to be.
Hi!
I would be my children’s perfect example to follow.
For me my reason would be so I can be financially independent. Be in a good place so I can have all the time I want to spend with my children. Work because I want to work because I am passionate about what I do and not because I have to work. So my parents never have to worry about their lack of finances. Be able to assist my family and friends in their financial struggles. Show my family and friends that it is possible to reach financial freedom – show by example. Thanks Harv for showing me that it is possible!
Because I’m sick and tire to being sick and tire. I have been struggling for around 10 years now. Trying different kinds of business. Reading like crazy, learning, getting ready, and I’m still broke. I just came across with your book, and after reading it, I think the reason why I’m still like this is cause I never committed to one business to make it happen. I want to prove my self, and my children that it possible for everyone to succeed. You know how embarrassing is when I tell my children ” this business is a good idea, I’m going to make it this time ” and they just look at you like saying, we already heard that so many times. I’m learning so much with all your stuff, and I’m very stubborn and I know in my heart that I’m going to make it happen! Thank you so much for all your work!
Buenos días Marta,
¡ Pruebo(Trato) también a un traductor (reverso) desolado si hace unos errores! ¡ Creo todo como usted a el (la) que señor Eker debería traducir en nuestras lenguas ya que su mensaje es poderoso!
¡ Mi lengua maternal es francés, comprendo muy bien el inglés pero hasta ahora nadie tenía como mí ayudar tan drásticamente como señor Eker con esta filosofía llena de voluntad!
¡ Su demanda es legítima y le deseo oír oír! ¡Buena suerte!
awesome stuff!! you are completely right if we don’t have an enough strong why we won’t have that fuel that will move us to do what it takes to be succeed. personally i want financial freedom, i really want to live life not to “survive”. thank you so much harv for sharing such valuable information.
Our word must be a LAW…Power!!