A Simple 4 Step Formula To Virtually Guarantee Your Success
Let’s say you are confident that you will one day be financially free.
Let’s say your financial freedom, if you hurry, is going to take 5 years.
On the other hand, if you were to relax a bit, enjoy the journey, and balance your life along the way, let’s say your financial freedom is going to take three years longer.
Would you rather be financially free in 5 years with worry, stress, problems, craziness, sickness, pressure and unhappiness all along the way, or would you rather take a few years longer to be financially free, but you will have enjoyed and loved those 8 years fully?
Which path sounds like a greater success story to you?
Some people will undoubtedly think, “Well, I’m stressed out as it is right now worrying about money, so yeah, even if I have to undergo a little more stress in the short-term, I’d rather get rich quicker than wait a second longer than I have to.”
Hey, lots of people feel like they work better under pressure; fair enough. That’s like the artist who thinks he or she produce masterpieces when they have drama in their life. More power to ya.
I just want to propose an alternative question: if you were not stressed out about anything–even reaching those goals that are most important to you–what would your mind do instead of focus on the drama?
What would your mind do if you weren’t worrisome or pressured every minute in order to reach some goal as quickly as possible?
It wouldn’t have that much to do, would it? The Ego wouldn’t have much of a job at all, as its primary job is to look for fear around every corner.
Without interference from the Ego, your Higher Self can begin to assert your natural, harmonious connection to the universe more and more effortlessly. When you get into the habit of not allowing guilt, anxiety or pressure to control your thoughts, emotions, and actions, you allow another type of energy to work through you as well as with you.
There’s a qualitatively different experience to life when the Higher Self directs our being. To live from the higher self is to live in courage, purpose and joy rather than fear, need and obligation. When you are in your higher self, this is the only time it is possible for you to connect with the higher intelligence of the universe.
Whatever it is you’re striving for in life, don’t attempt it by yourself! Yes, you have to do your part, but you don’t have to figure out every single thing on your own by yourself. There is a kind, supportive essence in this universe that wants to see you and me and everyone be prosperous and successful. That’s its sole purpose: to support whatever it is we create with our thoughts and actions.
So what’s the secret to tapping into this source of unlimited potential? In other words, what’s the secret to being successful?
Practice!
But not just practice getting better at whatever it is you’re trying to be successful at. You also have to practice being happy right now and not wait for “success,” whatever that word means to you!
Practice being appreciative, joyful, light, calm, confident, centered, beautiful, smiling and knowing. These are attributes of the higher self.
And this is “The Simplest Formula for Success”:
- Learn.
- Do.
- Go back to 1.
- Go back to 2.
You’re going to continuously learn, do, and repeat that equation. You are going to make mistakes. You are going to run into obstacles. It happens to everyone, and it will happen to you.
Just practice this simple formula for success, and operate from a place of practical yet positive belief in what you’re doing.
So …take a nice, deep breath. Do the best you can. Allow the universe to handle the timing of your ultimate success. Be confident that it will work out. Your success, though never guaranteed, is within your grasp when you follow this simple formula for success.
Take your ego out of the way with its insistence on having its way, which usually entails unnecessary strife, anxiety, impatience, and worry.
You are going to be successful because you are going to do two things. You’re going to learn things, and then you’re going to do them. You’re going to put them into practice. You’re going to learn more, and then you’re going to put that more into practice.
And you’re going to enjoy every step along the way, as long as you allow your Higher Self its deserved expression as much as humanly possible in your everyday life.
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Hi,I feel so encouraged by this article at the point of writing this,I was in so much fear of the seemingly insurmountable and imminent failure of meeting certain obligations in my life. I’ve been so anxious and fearful of the future so much that I can’t figure out where to begin . I think there is an answer in learning how to live with the Higher self ,I’m eager to learn more.
John, start with some simple self talk. Take a deep breath in and say to yourself: Right here, right now, at this very moment, all is well in my life. If you want more ideas on how to overcome your fear and find your Higher Self, check out ‘Survive Life and Live It Up!’
Annette,thanks alot for the advice,I’m going to check out that.
Thanks for advice. I’m currently on deep despair. Started my own business 8mths ago put all my resources into it, even sold my car, 60hr weeks followed a “supposed winning formula” and now have nothing. I don’t have debt but no funds, no backup and no one to support me. HELP please.
Hi Susan. I’m in a similar situation. I left my career after a decade of misery with the full belief that I could really get my small business rolling and that I could easily fall back on my talents and experience in design. Nothing has worked according to plan. I have been struggling to pay the bills without a net, but I still “know” that everything is going to work out alright. Things have been picking up lately and I’m finding a new course for my life path. You, too, will be fine. Fighting through the fear is the most difficult part, but if you keep working at pummeling those negative thoughts with optimism they can be reduced over time. I’m not saying I never get scared…I have been accumulating debt to survive, and the worry of not being able to catch up with that is daunting, but that’s only a fear-based thought, not something that has actually come into being. The thing that has changed is that there’s a knowingness deep inside that the tides are already changing. There is something amazing out there waiting for both of us, of course, and we have earned it! Keep on keeping on. The world is full of stories of people who have survived and then thrived. Just think…you have a clean slate now to create any type of life that you desire! I’m rooting for you…
You have yourself to support you, Susan. You may not know yet how powerful you are. Believe in yourself and your ability to make your way out of every possible situation, with the help of guidance from the Universe. Start thinking bold thoughts of belief at least three times a day. Start also building your way back into success, using tiny but daily baby steps. Take up the next smallest task you could think about and start with that only. That’s just the restart. The rest will follow. Wish you success, Frank
Susan, let go of despair like an old useless piece of junk… See the silver lining: NO debt! That’s pretty good. You are starting with a clean slate. New opportunities will show up. The best thing you can do at this time is entirely put the whole thing behind you as a useful experience. Think about what you want and what step you can take today toward it. Never stop moving forward. Have faith. Connect, clarify, talk about what worked (always a bit that does), give yourself a pat on the back for the brave attempt. See what can be done easier and better. Life is extraordinary. I believe in you.
Hey Susan, I’m currently where you’re at. But I agree with Jane’s comment. The only thing I can think of right now to tell you is a quote I heard years ago – “Life is 10% what happens to you, and 90% how you respond”. I am reminding myself of this as I type. Don’t give up, just know that we are all in this together to help one another through the difficult times and that we have your back.
Hello, Susan. I am in a similar situation also. I put everything into a small business that has not panned out for me and am in debt. One thing that has helped with the fear and other negative emotions is “tapping” or meridian tapping or EFT. Look it up on line – plenty of info there. Works like a charm to clear the mind – do it on everything that comes up for you. I do it several times a day if needed. You can use it to increase your faith also. Then the Universe will take care of the rest.
Hey susan just everyday ask your self if today was your last day would you be doing what your doing. Keep asking the same question everyday and do things which your not doing. I magine today is your last give your best,mediate,read books, kee this thought and see miracles happening in your life
What a wise and beautiful community here! Harv Eker has attracted amazing people. That fact that you are here helping, being vulnerable, supporting with your wisdom is magnificent!
Thanks!!!
Absolutely inspiring article!
Simple yet powerful. Practice makes perfect.
Thank you for this amazing formula. You always inspired me and helping me to inspired my teams as well. Thank you!
awe! haha Meant “thumbs up”! lol
These simple 4 steps seem Herculean tasks when you are despair and distress. How do we start with Learning in such condition – mental, financial and otherwise – is a mammoth problem most people face.
Roopy. I can understand you, it really looks like an Herculean task in this situation. I think that when we are at this stage it seems that we will never go trough that. What i’ve tried was to monitor myself thoughts when facing a question/ situation in life. I look for living this questions/ situation with JOY, COURAGE and POURPOSE. When i perceve myself WORRIED or AFRAID of some job question i say: Opss! that’s NOT THE BEST WAY to lead with that! When we have FEAR the best action is COURAGE. we recognize the fear but we choose to deal with it not to be SCARED. If you are feeling dispair , maybe it could be FEAR with copeles. To FEAR use CORAGE to lead with this situation. This formula has helped me : COURAGE, JOY and PURPOUSE. I hope i has somehow helped you.
Roopi,
I believe that the very fact that you read this article is a ‘step’ towards conquering your problems. Try linking up with more of Harv’s writings and programs. I find them inspiring and educational
Thank you for your inspirational messages
I spent the weekend in Toronto at the ‘I can do It 2016’ Hay House conference and saw a tribute to Wayne Dyer. The video clip that really hit home was where he talked about the simple, little song ‘Row Row Row Your Boat’. The take away was: Row YOUR boat, not someone else’s. Row it gently DOWN the stream. Stop trying to row against the current. Be merry and enjoy. Life is but a dream. You must allow yourself to dream in order to create your life to its fullest.
I know from experience the feeling John relates in his comment. Been there-done that. Like Susan, I too just started on something new, again, and it’s been super challenging. Must admit that what Harv relates in his article is working for me. I recently read Harv’s book. I’ve been applying what he says and binge learning for a while now. Just over the last couple of days I’ve had some doors of opportunity open. I believe in the value being connected to a Higher Power, thankfulness, learning and doing.
Great article as always! I have found that the less stressful I am, the better things become. Yes it is really tough at times but in the end if I take my time to understand the why’s then I have a good idea what to do next.
Simply brilliant!
Ola Bom dia
Eu sempre tento por em pratica tudo que leio, e aprendo mas não consigo colher o resultados esperado, na pratica os resultado são outros não os que eu espero. como posso fazer para colher resultados de sucesso.
Eu sempre quis ter os resultados que aprendo e leio, mas pratica são bem diferentes, aonde será que eu erro?
Eu diria que certifique-se de aprender com as pessoas que praticam seus próprios ensinamentos e obtem grandes resultados.
Thanks again Harv. Very timely reminder of how we need to simplify what we do and get out of complexity.
Inspiring and encouraging, thanks Harv!
With so much to do to get a new business idea started, I sometimes focus too much on pushing myself to keep going and it is easy to forget to recharge my batteries, so to speak. Your article puts things into perspective and I will now focus more on ‘being,’ as well as ‘doing’.
Looking forward to your next insight, keep ’em coming!
LOVE this!! Thank you! Namaste’.
I have to admit, I was sceptical when I first saw the Heading! Then I read the contents and got blown away – I feel successful already..again! Thank You for reminding me of the basics. Its like I’ve found my second wind to keep going. Looking forward to class. 🙂
Decide what is important in your life and apply the 4 steps. Focus, Focus, Focus, … and dont chase shiny objects.
…and Fun! : ) “Bake your biz (all your offerings) with love” — I heard Harv say, this past week (on a Tough Love call) that he makes breakfast smoothies for others “With Love.” Do you know that a baker friend who had her own bakery once told me that when she baked in a bad mood — on every instance in her entire life (!) — that the baked good Did Not Bake Correctly. Sheer energetics! Isn’t that something? It was such an issue at one point that she had to make an oath of positivity whenever in the kitchen! How much more our lives? Our businesses? <3
Hi Harv, I am need of financial blessings I pray daily, meditate, use positive affirmations, watch law of attraction videos on a daily basis and nothing is happening for me. What else can I do to see resuls?
Wow, this was written for me. Courage, purpose and joy vs. fear, need and obligation. I have been rowing against the tide. Important to listen to higher self, breathe. The situation was not created in a day, so it will not be resolved in one day. Enjoy the beauty of the struggle because there is a message there. Thanks for everyone’s comments. Have an awesome day if that is where you are being guided
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Thank you… Very good message…
Hey Harv
Wow brilliant! Your a master of allowing the creative intelligence of the universe to flow through you by coming from this higher self and awareness
This is one of my favourite million dollar life lessons
Thanks for Sharing these truths it’s very valuable lesson I think everyone needs to hear
Love this, Harv.
It is all about balance, desire, true self and faith. Letting go of fear, pressure, worry, and start each day from the highest part of us can only bring higher results. Lovely post. Profound and uplifting.
Thanks Harv.
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I loved it! I agree with all the things you said , so encouraging and true . My perception of the text is pretty much of the famous saying “here and now” but you said somewhere in the text ” your success even though it’s not guaranteed” kinda scares me !
Thanks for this great lesson, dear Harv. We people all seem to struggle with the same problems. There must be an easier way to get support from your Higher Self. But how exactly do I connect with it? Do you mean the subconscious mind? I’m grateful for all you people who are supporting each other.
Hi, Harv,
Thank you very much for the article. You are very right about the qualities of the High Self, or the Source of the Universe. How this turns into material success, though, is more questionable for me. I feel I’m missing something. Unless success is… just… enjoying the ride!
Great lesson and it makes sense. learn and do. Then learn from that experience and apply what you learned to doing it again. Eventually you will win.
muy buena leccion harv, hare lo propio aprendere y lo hare, aprendere mas y lo practicare,
muchas gracias harv.
I found my mentor Thank you!
Thank you Harv for this most valuable information. Time for me to practice and learn and practice again, LOL!
Obrigada Harv, adoro tudo sobre o que vc escreve! Mas não sei como dar o primeiro passo.
Wonderful! Thanks so much.
This is much food for thought, thank you.
Great work .on going .keep it going. Eat wishes Prakash babu
Excellent. Best wishes. Keep it going. Prakash babu.
I believe this is the way to the better life, one moment, one day, one step at a time, thank you for the insight!
Thank you for this article!
Best wishes to all!
Ah… That’s more like it!
Nice to read the ol’ Harv Eker that I am so fond of and ever grateful to!
Wish you were still running MMI, the message is so pure and powerful coming from you and I know so many people who would benefit!
Having good health is your greatest wealth. Without it you cannot enjoy life. I had to eat my words on this one, been working my butt off for many years, in survival mode. A recent concussion and a health warning was a wake up call on what is really important in life.Lost focus on what was important in life and the absence of having enough money seems to dominate and rule my life, and I was it’s slave: always just about able to pay for necessities and bills. Slowing down now, looking at what really matters in life. Most important is to give myself happiness and joy now, always been a giver. I remembered suddenly that, when I was doing what i loved, things just flowed and it never felt like work. These were the times that I was successful and money just came with it. Over recent years I have been putting my energy and focus into doing things that would give me money fast, to catch up with lost time, but it didn’t work that way. And it was hard work and difficult. To me it’s become a sign now that when things don’t flow, it’s either you’re on the wrong track or there is something in your thinking that needs to change… And also, is this really what you want?? Something else that happened which turned things around was, that I decided to give the money to a person who owed me some. She told me that she didn’t have any but was buying things of a friend of mine, and a few other things that made it look a bit silly. It had become an issue that nagged me and kept my mind milling it over. Suddenly it dawned onto me that, by keeping going on about it, I was sucked into her story – which was mine a while ago of not having much to live of and ongoing problems with keeping money. I was surprised how much power and energy we are giving away to printed paper. And how, if we let it rule our lives, it grinds us away. I felt suddenly so much freer and happier and noticed that it was actually quite nice to let go of my frustration, give her the money instead, so it would relieve her from an extra worry and me not to having to worry about it anymore. it felt so good that I started fantasizing on what it would be like to do this on a larger scale, being able to give money to good causes and projects. This is something I had wanted to do anyway, but couldn’t see myself generating enough to do so. Changing my perception about money has taken a huge weight of my shoulders.
Thanks T , just be with your self things will start happening for you. live in present moment watch your thoughts the more you observe your thought, thoughts start disappearing and life start illuminating: jpansari@gmail.com
gracias por esta sabia enseñanza
y en particular con lo que me sucede en la vida
elevo mi energia y eso es estupendo
gracias t harv eker 🙂
Gracias!!!
Si el miedo paralizante es horroros, hay que animarse y sacar energías de donde sea para abatir el miedo y lograr acciones que sumen.
Gracias
Harveker
Thanks for sharing! It is true that by just being grateful we get reconnected with our higher self.
And it is then that we are able to see clearly what we want and what is the best way to achieve it.
What you focus on is how you feel. First get your focus right, than start learning and doing 🙂
Well, this is coming just on time, Universe is showing us (my husband and me) a gift of life through you! All I have been reading is exactly what we are looking for right now! Thank to my husband that he found you and the Universe to have all this very valuable information just on time!
I agree but can someone explain to me what is my higher self and do you believe in Jesus Christ and the bible ? I am not going to argue I would like to know in order for me to continue with your teachings. I would appreciate your answer to this.
sincerely
Liz
thanks for sharing.
The universe has a way to configure people and things.
we practice and do and we learn and unlearn.
there is a timing for everything and success builds up on the way. Don’t let ego get in the way. Let positive vibes and energies rule.