Here’s The Biggest Difference Between A Successful And Unsuccessful Person

Most people in our culture are pretty far removed from the realities of what we generally think of as “warriors”. In a pop-culture kind of way, the idea evokes images of swords, shields and ancient wars.
I think it’s important to seriously embrace the concepts behind what it means to be a warrior, and not the part about swords and shields. I’m talking about mental preparation—focus and awareness of mind, body and spirit so the warrior can be optimal to do what needs to be done when the moment calls.
We don’t experience quite the same intensity in our daily lives, but on some levels we do. The point isn’t about what the “warrior” is going to do; it’s who the warrior will be that will direct the action.
The definition we use of warrior is “one who conquers oneself.” The path of the spiritual warrior is not about power over others, but power over yourself; being your true self. Only then can correct action follow, and the warrior’s way is the way of action.
It’s not just big actions in big moments. It’s about developing a habit; a bias toward action in your everyday life, and being able to reach your dreams because of this. Fear is what holds people back—fear of failing, or some perceived ridicule or pain for failing.
One of the most basic principles of the warrior is to be willing to make mistakes. The most successful people are willing to mess things up every now and then! They don’t take mistakes personally as an affront to their self-worth. They use mistakes as their primary form of learning.
You’ll get feedback based on action, and then you can make corrections. You go back to more action, maybe make more mistakes, and make more corrections until you get it right.
But what happens in the feedback loop for a lot of people? We make mistakes and beat ourselves up unmercifully for it. In our society we have such a stigma on “failure” that we’re not willing to do anything, especially anything big we really want.
Take action! Successful people trust themselves. They’re willing to take the chance.
Break out of the prison of the conditioned mind and come from true choice in the present moment. That’s power. Power is when you don’t have to be who you were yesterday, or two years ago, or whenever.
You have to be present in the moment and come from true choice. If you don’t come from the moment and can’t trust yourself, then you’re coming from your programs of the past.
Be whatever you have to be at the time. Being unattached to thoughts and beliefs means you can be free to be whatever you need to be right now. That’s the way of the spiritual warrior.
Now it’s your turn! What do you want to do in your life that you are waiting for the right situation? What would happen if you actually went for it right now? Do you have any experiences in embracing your “spiritual warrior”? Your feedback is very valuable so make sure to leave a comment with our community!
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Sometimes, I think people are equally afraid of success as they are of failure. For example ‘If I make a lot of money, people will expect me to …’, or ‘If I become a successful (author, actor, artists), then I will lose my privacy. Everyone will recognize me and I can no longer go out in public’. Personally, I don’t view my self as having failures. I have ‘learning experiences’ that are stepping stones to the next level. So the first step is to find out what the root of the fear is, failure or success, and then take action. Thanks for another great and thought provoking post, Harv!
This is exactly what’s needed in my Life right now! Fear and the feeling of being Stuck keeps knocking on my path to Success. In need of that Warrior Passion and Focus!
Thanks T. Harv
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Wow amazing. I love it. Thanks Harv, for such wonderful lesson today´s
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Hi,
A BIG thing for me in actually “Taking Action” on something I know that will benefit me in the future…
…Is to “Not Look At The Mountain” but rather, just simply look at that TINY first small step that is required for me to take first.
That way, it’s almost impossible to feel overwhelmed.
I think that’s what most people feel so they end up doing nothing.
If that first step was so small and easy to take, then anyone and everyone would feel that they could easily take that first step.
Then another small step, then another, then another.
Over time that adds up to something BIG!
Perfect timing with this article and I do love what Annette Zoheret had to say. Ditto and thank you Annette. I’ve felt that way for years because of my circumstances and wow, set free!
As a legally blind artist, I have learned many ways to hide adversity, but now I feel I am kicking adversity’s butt.
Eu tenho a mente milionária!
I have a millionaire mind!
Brasil!
Just over 11 years ago I left the security of a 24 year position to purchase a business. The learning curve was not gentle rolling hills, but a series of ladders to climb. In that time, the blessings and challenges have made the dream come to life. Now, the next step is taking a large leap of faith into purchasing a building and moving forward with the vision we are committed to.
The best way is to take control of your thoughts and direct your focus on what you want to expand.
Taking massive action one check box at a time.
Thank you for your focused encouragement.
This is exactly what the US Open champ Stan Wawrinka showed us with his win last Sunday…and he pointed to his temple to let us all know that Harv is right!
Well! I’m hoping to learn something I can learn, know, implement, and see and receive the good results that I desire.
Looking forward to what I can learn. I am grateful for this opportunity
We all start out as a seed (dream)..it won’t grow if you don’t water it, prune it or fertile it…You first step is to plant it..successful people plant seeds everyday..Can’t have the apple before the seed…
Dear Harv you know there are a lot of scams out there what is a legitimate at home business where you really can be wealthy is empower one
Your article is inspiring. One doesn’t need to wait for miracles or big opportunities to happen, because each and one of us have the potential and all what it takes to make them happen.
Wow I love it, thank you Harv. What a great introduction into your community.
Harv thank you, I love the article!!!
You cannot be a “soldier” and not be a “warrior”!
I told myself earlier today that attempting to try over and over again destroys the heart oftentimes. I guess I have not mastered the warriors way yet.
I’d love to hear from anyone who has completed the Inner Success program. What did you think of it? Did it change the way you approach the obstacles in your life? Was it worth the time and money?
thank you Harv.
I have a millionaire mind!
Great way to start the day. Thank you Harv.
Dear Harv, I have recently enrolled into your coaching courses and have learnt a lot. I never knew how valuable such courses were until now. Well, still not too late to learn i guess. It is stimulating to read what you share as i always gain something from your sharing. Great stuff and thank you Harv. A true SIFU!
Since young, I grew up to be quite tough. Deadlines, tasks, difficult situation, need to take care of the family.
Over the years, I had the fair shares of success and failures.
It’s about willing to learn from the past mistakes.
It’s being critical with oneself.
It’s an opportunity to know who stands by you and who will leave you when times are tough.
A warrior is someone who has a sense of purpose and belief.
He/she will perseverse despite the odds and difficulties.
It can hurt and be painful at times. It can be loss, of time, emotions and money at others. It could be suffering, as well.
Mostly, the warrior will recover, re-assess and understand what went wrong.
Thanks T. Harv.