Don’t Sell – Help!

There are another three components that are critical to website success—besides avoiding the pitfall of focusing on product before knowing who your target market is and where they hang out.
The first is help, don’t sell. By helping you will sell. The second is build credibility and rapport through educating.
You’ll go to a sloppily put-together webpage and get these annoying boxes that come up asking if you want something you weren’t thinking about before but are certainly too annoyed by now to entertain considering.
When you’re marketing online, remember that people don’t shop online. People research online.
Most people go online for research on how to buy a new car, or increase their business, or to learn about raw foods, or whatever it may be. So your website has to be designed around helping, not selling. Informing, revealing, educating.
If you sell, you will fail. By helping you build credibility and rapport. People will believe in you, and because of that, you can show them the value in your product or service. And they will buy from you. It’s absolutely critical to what you do online.
Everything on your website—every button, every graphic, every word you put on the page has got to be built around helping, not selling. Make it most appealing to researchers, not to shoppers. Save the two-page sales letters and the paper. Whatever it is you’re the expert in, whatever you do, they want more information. They’ll call you, email you, or order right off the website.
The mindset of the online researcher-pre-shopper is, “What’s in it for me?” That’s the first question you want to answer on your website. If you can’t answer that question at the top of your webpage, change it or you’re going to fail. Why should anybody stay there? They’ve got hundreds of websites to go look.
Don’t have a mission statement at the top of your page talking about who you are, what you do, how great and fantastic you are, and how you have a Ph.D. Nobody cares about that.
They care about what you’re going to do for them. That doesn’t mean not making available credentials and testimonials, but it all goes back to writing headlines—something that will make them stay. Suck them in. Make them feel like they’re going to be learning something they didn’t know before.
Nearly the same marketing rules still apply. Walk a mile in your prospects’ shoes. Empathize with them in plain language. Pharmaceutical ads are written and spoken so that children understand them. Use simple and/or precise language (depending on the uniqueness of your market) as your keywords—the words prospects would be typing into Google or Bing to find you. If you’re selling cow juice but everyone calls it milk, you better call it milk too because people don’t search for cow juice, they search for “milk.” If you get stuck, there are writers at reasonable prices who can do it for you.
It’s not how well you know your product that is going to determine the level of your sales and your success; it’s how well you know your customer, so that you’re ready for them when they visit your web page.
Next month we’ll cover that last key to success in building an online business—having the best possible sales process you can have—one that costs you nothing and boosts your profits!






Thanks T.! I was about to spruce up my blog site to connect all of my affiliations on one site. I had not touched it since 2010!! This advice was timely and priceless! You are the Best!
Jeanette
FB/4synergy and @jnetshur
Awesome! Thank you sharing!
So glad to hear you are not a fan of a two-page selling letter—they drive me nuts with all the “fluffy” words. Any bright person feels that are a waste of time.
Give me the facts!!!
Great info here…thanks.
Fri., 6/1/2012:
God bless you, T. Harv Eker for your
ALWAYS timely reminder to “help, not sell”.
Old-line service-oriented companies
(like Home Life Insurance Company of New
York, when it marketed life insurance via
“Planned Estates” and looked for “problems
to solve, not products to sell”) was in alignment
with Wilson Learning Corp.’s “Counselor Selling”
process, which made the “discovery” process
the key, crucial part of working with clients and
customers. When a ‘2lst century thinking’ version
is developed of this constructive heritage of the
past, we’ll be back on track again.
Thanks again for your excellent work,
Mr. Eker!
When I was focusing to sell I could not help… Now I am focused on helping and I sell like crazy!
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Good information! Thanks
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Thank you very importand info. and to be honest need your help
Just as you’ve always said “Do what is hard and life is easy….do what is easy (just selling on a website) and life is hard”. Love the simplicity of your “success systems”.
Awesome and very timely advice as always, Harv!
Dear Harv.Can you imagine how much you help people with all of this? You can? Ok now double it!
I don’t have enough words to thank you ,for everything you gave me on my way,and all for free. Dear God!!!
And..”cow juice” hahahahahahahahahahahahhahahaha!!!!!!!
Thank you for yet another wonderful advice! These lessons are refreshing. They are great reminders of what really works and how to get your focus back where it should be…”solving problems for others”
Great article – couldn’t agree more.. finding out the best way to help people and stand out from your competitors is something I am constantly working on and always find a challenge.
Thanks
Christine
Dear Harv, thank you for all your advice. It is great to have all these input from you. Now I know I can help more people!
Brilliant! People are defensive and resistant to a “sales pitch”. Those same people are eager to learn more and “to be helped” and want to believe that they are the ones making an intelligent choice and buying decision. I have been selling (helping???) for over 50 years and this advice really nails it. Great work!
I came across a link to this piece in a forum. I have to agree with this philosophy. By helping others I get so much more out of all my marketing. I build relationships that turn into referrals . I gain a reputation for knowing my stuff which makes people more interested in working with me. I apply the same skills to my personal brand that I do with clients. When I am successful, I show them that they will be as well.
There is a large ecosystem out there with many dynamic processes. It seems like a lot, but the easiest solution is to abide by your principles and help others when you can. Even in our small struggles there are many more going through the same issues. We have experience that we can share with them.
Good Morning, I just stopped in to visit your blog and thought I’d say thanks for having me.
Greeting from across the ocean. informative post I must return for more.
Right on Harv. Providing value first is like paying it forward. Eventually karma will catch up with you and a sale is made.
if you sell online remember that the most important thing is to have the mentality you are here to help buyers. Don’t sell, just help. The thing is when you are good at helping and you let them feel it, people eventually are going to buy. That’s the beauty of it, don’t you think?
Your intent is critical. Many would-be entrepreneurs can only see what’s in it for them. If you only care about yourself, your business will be dead before it is born.
It’s an ongoing effort to check your intent too. You may talk yourself into being “helpful” for a while but if you just want to take people’s money, you will go back to your old ways before you realize it. First get your head in the right place. Harv is speaking the truth — so listen and apply.
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