How to Be More Than Just Interesting
As you might have noticed in recent blogs, I’ve been talking about some of the actual aspects of business rather than the mind of the millionaire side. The concepts of both the tactics of business and the psychological prerequisites can’t be summed up in a few pages of blogging.
However, your feedback has been great as usual. I’m thrilled to see some of you exchanging questions and ideas on these really complex subjects, so I thought I’d keep it going by focusing on marketing a little bit more—something that’s so easy to know is a necessary thing to get right, but not always so easy to execute effectively.
Last week we looked at making clear, concise statements in a marketing message. To go into some more detail, there are four basic elements that make a message highly effective: attention, interest, desire, and action. If you cover those four elements, you’ll build success more than most others.
For now let’s focus on interest because gaining a prospective customer’s interest will play a huge part in the other three elements. Interest has to come at the beginning of the message. If you don’t hook them immediately after you’ve got their attention, they’re gone.
So what gets people’s interest? That one’s easy enough: pleasure and pain. No matter what we’re doing in life, it has to do with either finding ways to increase pleasure or avoid pain. These are mind-based motivators with some emotional elements attached as well.
A pleasure-based opening for a marketing message is actually very simple. You’re capturing interest based on a positive benefit. For example: “Get ripped fast!” The message: get in shape. The benefit: it can happen quickly.
You definitely want to point out benefits, but research shows that messages about how to avoid pain have a much more profound effect on sales than the pleasurable benefits of your product or service. Pain-based marketing can triple a business’s income. Pain-based messages identify a problem and then offer remedies. It’s the problem-solution opening.
There are three types of problem-solution openings:
- You-based
- Me-based
- Them- or People-based problem
An example of the You-based opening: Do you have [fill in the blank] problems? What you’re implying in just a few words is that if the prospective customer had been looking, they’d have already found a solution by now. Your solution could be just that more appealing.
The Me-Based opening tells your own story or that of your client’s. Telling the story of how I went from one failed business to another, then becoming a millionaire adds credibility—“I’ve been where you are.”
The Them-based problem-solution creates an instant line of connection whereby you ask the prospective customer a question and they can identify with it immediately, kind of like Seinfeld doing a stand-up about common things that everybody can identify with yet may not think about too often. For example: “You know how so many people today are stressed about their retirement savings? Well there’s an amazing informational product out there that’s helping thousands of people right now…”
As an exercise, write five openings for a marketing message: pleasure-based; pain-avoidance-based; You-based; Me-based story; Their problem (“You know how …?”). One great place to start is with your headlines—because if you can get your reader to notice you via your headline, you’re success rate of capturing their attention to actually read your message skyrockets.
Here’s a great resource to help you become a master at crafting headlines: https://www.copyblogger.com/magnetic-headlines/
Anyone can come up with dozens of these messages, but your challenge is to be more than just interesting. Be absolutely convincing. Be creative, effective, productive, and then be rich!
Tell me your thoughts. Have you had great success with crafting messages that work? Let us all know your strategies. Have you struggled in this area? Share your challenges here and let our online community support you and give you ideas to move you in the right direction.






Thanks Harv, That's really powerful stuff. I am a regular reader of copyblogger, which is really excellent by the way.
Keep up the good work and see you at the Guerilla Business…
— Vincent Leleux
Hi! Thanks very much for this article. Really, it's interesting and I research every day the sentences which captivate the readers.
The four words: attention, interest, desire, and action you give us are essential to create our successfull business.
I 'm a Millionnaire Mind and you too.
I help you to create passive incomes and health too!!!
Money with health are so important for everybody!
But the LOVE is the foundation of the life, the roots of the success. Making what are doing with love and the creativity develop with joy and richness.
Have a nice weekend!
See you soon
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Hello from Guatemala: I`M Aida, an Biochemist and inventor, but the things I made didn`t know how to sale it, now I`m learning, and it has been a big experience, now I can help more myself and anothers. Still on the way. sorry about my english. Thank you so much Mr. Harv Eker.
Did you ever notice how stress doesn't relieve itself? A quiet massage could be your answer. Just trying out the seeds of thought you planted in my head today. Thanks. I run a spa and put out a sandwich board on the street. This line of ideas will fit nicely and may be easy to measure. Thank you again.
Well said, Harv! As a Resonance Repatterning practitioner I'm an expert at helping people get in alignment with their goals and switch off all the mind frick that sabotages their efforts.
I've learned through building my own successful practice that having the millionaire mindset is essential in attracting the right clients. I can attest that marketing is just as essential. Learning how to market my services has made all the difference.
One thing I would add to your statement about being interesting, convincing, creative, effective and productive is be authentic — then be rich!
Just what I need right now…getting ready to launch my website and start blogging and podcasting.
Thanks,
Beth Rosen
Harv, I have to agree with you. I’ve struggle only in that I have yet to complete setting up ways of tracking what works. But for a while back I used “Are you fed up with falling short of your full potential.” I love this line myself because years ago I was a songwriter and I enjoy how it rolls off my tongue. But that’s pretty “me” based. More importantly, it touches on the pain (falling short) and pleasure (full potential) together. Thanks for your post – it reminded me to revisit and test this phrase in addition to what I’m working with now; “helping people reach their most ambitious goals and overcome all obstacles.”
I'd love to hear your thoughts about 'marketing oneself'. Actors or dancers, for example, are the product. How would you suggest we market ourselves?
Thank you
Patrizia in Los Angeles
What a great post Harv! You have inspired me to be great! Thank you!!!!!
Hello Aida, I'm looking for a biochemist and I love to network with millionare minds like yours.
The better you know your audience and the narrower your audience, the more natural it will be to write a headline they will act upon.
Thanks Harv for being such an inspiration!
Today is a day to concentrate on my marketing.
See you in London soon!
Love, Sandra
Hi Harv,
Until just a few months ago I didn't really know what interested people. I learned a few things about human beings and why they buy: Pain and pleasure. Even logic needs to have some emotion tied to it. I started listening to Tony Robbins' Mp3, listening to Ross Jeffires' speed seduction stuff and getting a lot of information about sales. I learned a few things from this material. (1) You must know how to tip people over the edge. (2) You need to be a master at it. (3) You need to believe whole heartedly in what you're selling.
Great stuff Harv –
You always create “thought provoking” articles that get the creative juices flowing.
Keith Fiala
http://www.trumpetresources.com
Thanks again for great information. Thanks for the link on magnetic headlines!
What about the right words to be used? Like for instance instead of using the word “learn” that gives the impression of hard-work and pain, use “discover” to give it a more exciting aspect.
True in all breeds. Great ealpmxe is the racing greyhound. They are all pretty much raised the same. They live the same life the first 2 5 years. Yet some are shy and some are bold. Its just how they were born. Very unlikely someone beat the shy one.