Imagination Always Wins

There are internal principles we use to create whatever we want to create. You’ve got to be congruent with who you are; an honest statement to yourself and to the world. You can’t get wealthy if you’re not congruent with that.
We have this desire to be financially free, but there’s this other part that says, ‘It’ll make my life more complicated,’ or ‘I don’t deserve to be.’
‘God doesn’t want me to.’
‘Mommy doesn’t want me to.’
‘The government doesn’t want me to.’
That never ends until you change the tune. You need to decide on something you’re going to do. Get congruent about it and go get it done. Take action on it.
There’s a saying I think is one of the most profound sayings I’ve ever heard by Émile Coué: “When the will comes into conflict with the imagination, the imagination always wins.”
It means you may want to do something, you may will it, you may write it down as a goal, you may say to yourself ‘That’s what I want to do’, but if your imagination is not congruent with that desire, you will conform to your imagination about it—even if you’re imagining the worst.
The deepest parts of you know what is right for you. That’s what intuition is. The problem is following your intuition can sometimes be a very fearful thing because you’re usually going against everything that everybody else is telling you. They’re usually saying, “Don’t do it.” You have to know and affirm that it’s right for you. It’s your thing. You’ve got to do this.
You would worry a lot less about what people think of you if you realized how little they do. But we have this façade we put up around ourselves, yes or yes? We try to play a role. And this façade takes half of our energy.
Fear is the most expensive habit we have. How much does your fear cost you? Go back five years and change your life, take all the fear away. No more fear of rejection. Live five years forward up to today without that fear. Where would you be today?
If you move and act in a different way, in a more congruent way, in a less fearful way, what happens? If we could take all of that and put it into money and relationships, time and physical health?
The question isn’t meant to draw thoughts of the past into the realm of regret. We learn what we learn when we learn it, and we get it into our bodies when it happens. Sometimes the Universe makes those turning points obvious, sometimes it takes us awhile to get there. Better late than never.
The point is to get it into our systems now; our desires deserve an imagination that will allow intuition, integrity, knowledge, and humility to go after what we want guilt free—free from the echoes of past that are no longer suited for your real ambitions.
What do you think? Has fear literally cost you money, or time, or something else important? Even for those who have found some level of financial success, do you ever still hear negative whispers from that old money blueprint? Leave a comment below and let me know what you think!
For Your Freedom,







Hi Harv, Thank you so much.
I believe fear is the source of most of the worlds problems. The way people react to an deal with inner fears causes greed, suffering and aggressiveness, etc. – mostly negative reactions. These lead to illness, both mental and physical, unhappiness, and crime from the minor up to the ultimate war.
But you’ve hit on the solution to fear – developing intuition and will and merging them with imagination. I believe is what we are here for. Well, if I can get a bit spiritual. I believe we are here to find God. That is to become aware of God, or our soul within us. And the more aware we become the more intuitive we become – the more wisdom we have.
I attended one of your Millionaire Mind Summits many years back. It was a great experience for me.
I’ve also been a member of SRF for 17 years. I believe you mentioned Paramahansa is your Guru, as well.
Please keep up the important good work you are doing.
Thank you!
Frank
Jai Guru!!
As always, very timely nugget that rings personally – thanks for the constant guidance and wisdom!!
Yes, yes, yes. I love that statement “fear is the most expensive habit we have”. How much time and money do we waste on this pointless emotion?. I’m getting into a new project at the moment and there is potentially a lot to be fearful about. But I’m not listening to that voice because if I did, I wouldn’t get past step 1. Give fear the boot and let imagination rule.
“Fear is the most expensive habit we have.” A few of us learn it the hard way and the rest, never come to know of it. Sadly, they spend their life time by projecting everything from their domain of fear.
You’ve made a very sad statement, and regrettably, it is so true! A domain of fear is rather chilling…. Just think what would happen if we learned to operate from a place of love and not fear? I think we’d blow our own minds with this basic action. This is my daily challenge… At some point, operating in the fullness of love will be effortless, and I await that freedom!
Great article and definitely true. I am reflecting on what is said here and I can honestly say that my life would have been different had I made the decision long ago and lived without that fear but no one ever shared what belief with me. The great thing is that now I can take that and run with the ball to make sure that things get done regardless of whatever happens in whatever kind of circumstances are present because I know what I want out of life and as long as I hold that in mind and in intention then I am the only one that can stop me, no one else.
Thank you . I really needed this. As I look back fear has cost me a lot of things and as I’m looking forward now and I’m older and wiser I will not let it get in the way anymore!
Thanks sir, now i know!
Fear of failure, procrastination and just a plain lack of action has held me back in the past. But since attending Harv’s Millionaire Mindset Intensive weekend here in Johannesburg in August, and joining up with the Life Makeover Challenge, I think I am on the right path now. As Harv said, all I needed was “The Accelerator” something that will make me more accountable. I have since found a personal trainer to help me become fit and healthy. I have found a published author who is prepared to mentor me with my book. There is momentum and I am excited!
I think this has been the most astonishing perspective on Fear I have ever read! It really hit home for me. Great article! Thank you!
Awesome, to not feel like I’m the only one experiencing this, I will do what it takes to create my life thank you
I grew up thinking money is devil. Now that I have severe family commitment, I started feeling the need for income. And it has been 6 months since I have started my own law firm and I haven’t got into any cash for myself and no matter how I visualize and drag myself into law of attraction, i dont seem to get persistent client. That’s putting me at the verge of giving up, though deep within I feel move on, tunnel of light is just around the corner. It is easier not to think about it and feel pressurised than to imagine and end up with disappointment. And the list of commitment is no way finding its solution. I feel by the universe replies and says, Amen, I shall be either extremely worn out with the heavy financial commitment or totally given up.
Keep going Sumitra …. become unstoppable. Think of all the boundaries you can break and then break them. Give yourself no option but success!
Sumitra – Keep going. You are almost there. Don’t forget to update your story on this page six months from now..Good Luck.
Love it!
I am now living in a different place internally because of walking through fear and letting the feelings around it surface so I could see what I was dealing with. Last week I was with a friend and I could actually see a heavy cloud around her and knew she was living internally in the same place where I used to live and had actually thought that state was normal. The energy around fear is palpable and it is something to be reckoned with and not just lightly dismissed.
Than you for your postings which are appreciated.
ya harv u r alwayz right I m a big fan of you
in short we are completly responsible for our self.:)
I have been living in fear for the past 20years now
Any time I decide to take a decision on what I can do to become financially independent then I began asking myself questions. Please I need your help I was an employee at one of the five star Hotels in Ghana and resigned to start something small to start with on my own as you said in one of your book “millionaire’s mind” you can not be financially independent while you are working for some one but I am now broke that I don’t even have one dollar in my bank Account . Please I need direction
Hi, You have made a common mistake: jumped to your business TO FAST. The best thing: have a job- to pay your bills and MEANWHILE build your business afternoons and weekends. When the income from your business is enough for covering your living costs, you can resigned from working for someone else and grow your business faster, full time. In addition, before quitting a job, you need to learn about money and business and go to personal development courses too. This your mistake: you jumped to business side without the right preparation. Now, find a part time job for covering your bills and having money for courses to LEARN HOW TO BUILD YOUR BUSINESS, and continue building your business because Harv is right: if you want to be financially independent- the only way is via own business. 🙂 But now, you must build it more wisely. You can go to Millionaire Mind Intensive seminar. Harv is the author of it. And also to another trainings, then you will implement the knowledge into your business AND YOU WILL WIN!!!
You can also learn on my website: http://www.howtoberich.info
Ela
T Harv met you back when Raymond Aaron introduced you.
Your right things got in the way, work 32 years retired, though happy with my wife. Always interested and Tracy introduced me to ILA learning, though enjoying twitter and reading the tweets
This is stuff is unbreakeble,this thing called fear is an enemy to peoples life indeed.
Thank you.
yes. fear is our mental cost. The world has always pre-occupy us with fear. People who keep telling us to do and that. The medium has projected us a wrong picture in our sub-conscious mind…We are over-loaded by information nowadays.
Intuition is definitely a good point. And because of intuition so I left everything in Hong Kong and come to Germany for my study. After all these 4 years, it has been great while before not any body thought I could really make it.
Intuition and integrity do play a big part of living life to fullness. Too many time we actually know what we really, how do we really want to live, but we act in an opposite direction! So the universe is confused. probably the self is the easiest to fool.
By the way, God wants all of us to be prosperous, financial free. Coz ministries need money to expand, churches need money to be build, flyers need money to be printed. Money is neutral. It can either make one more generous or more selfish. makes thing better or makes things worse. Money can be used to bless a lot of people. I truly believe all christians or others should have the ability to master their finance.
Insurance is not the answer, going to rental is also not the answer.
Being fearless, life-loving, doing what I really like,never lie to myself, stay, healthy, no 9-5. That´s it.
Thanks for the input!! Love it!
Really love your comment. I seems that we are on the same thinking path. Thank you for expressing your thoughts.
bless you. Meg
Good morning,
I just received this monthly lesson and I have a few comments.
I want to start by saying that I went to one of your seminars some 7 years ago and I really got a lot oout of it.
For today’s lesson :
1) the guy who said that «quand il y a lutte entre l’imagination et la volonté, c’est toujours l’imagination qui l’emporte » or “When the will comes into conflict with the imagination, the imagination always wins.” is French, not Canadian, and his name is Émile Coué.
2) Can you suggest how to use our imagination ? Are there effective ways of doing so ?
Thank you for answering,
Lila
Hi Harv thanks for the article, is fantastic.
I’m a gardener for over 20 years and I have 38.
I decided to put fear aside and quit my job at the end of this year because I want to go into business online.
I have a client that has been growing since 2004 and it’s hard to take this decision to leave everything and follow my goal.
But it is the right decision and that makes me happy, I know I will get and in less than a year I earn much more money than I make now.
A big hug!
Dani
Fear is costing me now. I spend too much time in my head fearing what is going to happen and I feel trapped.
Fear has cost me trips to friends weddings, holidays with family and transportation.
Fear is keeping me from earning income completely. As I sit I don’t have enough to get through the next month and I see no income coming in when there is potential.
Fear has consumed my mind and no matter how much I read my lack of confidence in myself keeps me stuck in fear.
I feel the same way, fear has kept me from my full potential. I fear being successful. Isn’t that stupid!!
Laurie,
Fear stands for False – Expectation – Appearing – Real.
We are only ever born with two fears, the fear of falling and the fear of loud sound.
Every other fear is taught to us by the people around us.
Something you learn, you can unlearn.
You don’t go into a restaurant, have the best meal and say that was a miracle that it tasted amazing. The chef followed a recipe, the same principle applies for confidence.
What your mind thinks, it attracts.
Have faith, take one step at a time, no one has ever reached the top of the mountain by being placed there.
It will all come together for you.
So true. When I’ve seen it in my mind, I know how to do is. when there is no picture it’s hard tot do.
Love this! It’s exactly what I needed to read at this moment in my life! Thanks Harv!
Gabriella
I think fear and lack of the correct imagination is what keeps most of us stuck working jobs that we don’t like. Thanks to principles you’ve taught me, I practice daily imagining myself doing the work I love and earning a fortune doing it. Best of all, things are manifesting… Thanks Harv!
wounderful testimony
This message is timely. Thank you.
I like this article and I believe , you meant me!!!
I´m looking forward to the next one!
Thank you , Harv!
Indeed, Fear is most expensive habit there is. I know it is something i have to confront head long as i make giant strides toward my goals. I am sold out and must make indelible mark on sands of time amidst fear- This is my imagination. I can’t wait to see it happen in a colossal manner. It did not stoop someone like you, it won’t stop me. I just need to be aware of its operation and hit the right button when it struck. You said it ALL! I have got to get congruent about it and hand-twist it in an amazing proportion to pave way for me to launch my vision since it is an inherent trait to all achievers!
I was doing the excercise of going back five years and thinking in all the different choices that I could change… I’ts overwhelming!!
Just yesterday, a friend and I were talking about to begin a small business, but I was thinking in all the difficulties and the bad things instead of all the good effort and rewards we can make.
Today I found the answer in my e-mail.
Thanks to all of you. Have good thoughts!
Fear has costed me money and time because I have procrastinated mant times by not following through on goals I had set for myself.
At age 45 I realised that I feared poverty my whole life and guess what I had for 45 years……..!!!
Looking forward to MMI in Johannesburg, South Africa 27-29 September 2013.
Hi Harv
Thank You for this lesson.It truly hit home.I too have been living in this mental fear for too many years.
Like you said ” A Man must be Master of his Destiny.” I have left mine in the hands of others,but no more.Slowly I have made changes,and attending your MMI in August in Johannesburg was a big one for me.Never before would I have had the guts to go away for three days and do what I wanted,but I did, and very happy and excited to get to the next milestone.Looking forward to keeping on growing and prospering with your help.
Thank You very much
This is where Peak Potentials course “Enlightened Warrior Training Camp” comes in handy…
Because it teaches you how to TAME the Cobra of Fear, and get the job done in spite of Fear!!!!
Thanks for designing that camp Harv!
A-Ho!!!
Imagination Always Wins – 9/5/2013
Thanks, Harv. There were several things mentioned in the post to which my response was, yeah, so true. For example, I liked the point that I can overcome negative self-talk by deciding to do something, and getting congruent with it, and then taking action on it, doing it. This helps me to keep going despite negative feedback from others, and echoes of my old blueprints e.g. negative self-talk. Progress on the way to reaching my goals.
I have tried to imagine and to overcome my fear/paralysis of moving forward with my career and financial picture…. But alas to no avail!
I took MMI, Courtney Smiths Trader course a year ago and even the ONLINE monitizing course…. but to no success.
Perhaps discipline is also important…????
I am one of the project managers for a company called Silver Connect Web Designs and this has opened my eyes! Thank you very much sir. Now I know exactly what to do.
Thanks so much for this timely message. I have known that fear has been an ongoing issue for me and just recently discovered Tapping or EFT and it has helped me tremendously. I highly recommend you check out these topics to see if they can help you conquer fear or other issues that are keeping you down. Good luck to all of you!
Pam
really really is the secret. I think this skill need more training to be a habit. And really it is work. It is relevant to Attraction Low ( the secret).
Don’t let other people instill their fear into you.. Their fear is about them and not about us. Network with and find mentors that open doorways by tapping into their dreams with extravagant childish imagination, avoid those that create make believe obstacles. When you have to free fall, you must trust yourself, believe in yourself, and find your passion as that will drive your success. Never let dirty feet leave a pathway through your thoughts.
I’ve read that fear is false evidence appearing real. I agree. It is hard to step outside one’s comfort zone.
Our perspective of the world is very superficial, because it is on a conscious level as opposed to the subconscious. Most are not in touch with their imagination, which Resides in the subconscious. The conscious mind is not flexible. In fact it is rather one dimensional. We are not in control of our lives, but by the messages that bombard us from the media and our family and friends. It is all an illusion.
To know our purpose we must find a way to access our real selves. I’m delving into meditation.
I think this is the first step for many people. When someone knows what they want and it is a burning desire, it will be achieved.
Fear is a useful emotion that could make or break a person, but it is necessary to one’s progress in life. In the midst of fear one needs to decide whether or not to act. Action controls fear as it is no longer foremost in one’s thoughts and here lies the opportunity to complete one’s goals in spite of fear.
Perfect timing Harv! (Deep breath) I’m going in!
Thank you!
Thank you, Harv. Thank you for all these wonderful essays… Your book changed my life and helped me to focus on becoming more conscious every day, every moment. This is a great essay… Anthony
Thanks Harv, for your motivational insights!! I will sound just like a hoaky Hallmark ad if I say “you changed my life!”…..but I gotta say it cuz it’s true!! And now I really want those around me to benefit from your insight as well. So PLEEEEEASE bring another MMI to Calgary soon!!!! I will bring myself, my two teen daughters, my boyfriend, my sister and her family of four, and all the rest of my tribe…so that’s a guaranteed audience of at least 30….AND I’ll work on building my tribe in the mean time, so it will be an even bigger group 🙂 Thanks again Harv and have a lovely weekend. Looking forward to the good news of dates of MMI in Calgary soon!! Hugs and hi fives all around.
Yes please come to calgary alberta i will come to and bring people too thanks so now you have more people to get harv to come
I’ve been working on creating more in my life for the past 9 years. This meant clearing out the memories of the past as well as creating a positive present and future. For me, imagination by itself didn’t work. Although I’ve remembered some of the memories of being raped and terrorized at the age of 4 1/2, just last week I started releasing the energies that made me go blank during most of that experience. From my perspective, I left my body and another spirit came in to protect me. When I released that spirit, many more emotions came out of my space and many memories returned. It’s been a difficult week and the work is hard, but as with other energies/spirits I’ve released, life changes for the better and I can continue to use my imagination (metaphysical/clairvoyant tools) to create what I want in this life.
Always use your imagination or other tools you’ve learned to create what you want in life and remember to let go of the things that don’t agree with you having them.
Nanette
I know you are stronger than your past….and understand that its in the PAST. thank you you are very encouraging.
Hello Harv
Great article. I know fear can be very costly.It can be in the realm of finances, getting a new business up and running , or when a loved one has a terminal disease and the Dr’s have told you that there is nothing more that they can do, then that demon of FEAR tries to over take your mind and stop you from believing and going forward. The Lord has said in His Word.” For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind” .In my life when I get hit with fear in any area I hit back with the Word Of God ,and when God arises all His enemies have to scatter they are not welcome and we continue and move forward in Gods Power.
Dear Harv,
I know, that you receive a lot of grateful comments and letters, but I also know that each letter and thankfulness is still very dear and important to you in spite of your stirring life, tiredness and a very busy schedule.
I want to thank you for providing The Evergreen Light to people.
Your teaching is very important, you bring priceless knowledge, possibilities and opportunities for people who want to make difference in their lives, to escape the vicious, corrupted circle of struggles for existence and survival, and to live in their full potential.
The Universe is abundance and brings everything to everybody who really wants it and does all necessary steps to receive, appreciate, keep and grow it. It is working!
Harv, do you realize what you shared with the humankind?
This is The Cornucopia, some people can call it The Holy Grail!
This is the superior system and it will work forever! Isn’t it beautiful? When you see it – you just drift away like a wave on the cool summer morning. So beautiful, so perfect, so pure, clean and clear!
All what you need to do – is just to make your choice. So simple – join the wave, leave all your negative programming behind and enjoy every single moment of your life on the wonderful journey with love, wealth, freedom, richness, happiness, health and prosperity.
Most important: to get all of this you don’t have to be dead. 🙂 🙂 🙂 – you know… afterlife, Paradise, Eden, Elysium, Heaven, you name it.
You can have all what you want here, in this reality, in this time, on this Earth, because this is your destiny, you want it and you deserve it.
I want to thank you also for all that you gave me personally. After I’ve just touched this knowledge I already knew – this is it! This is what people looking for all their lives. This Light and Energy is part of me now and I become one of the Enlightening’s bearers too. For me it was an inevitable step. Unbelievable, extraordinary, incredible positive events and coincidences are happen in my life every day now, my wealth growths exponentially…
Harv! Thak you one more time!
You ARE THE MEN! 🙂 🙂 🙂
Andriy Temofyeyev
droommaster@yahoo.com
beautiful said. yes i feel the same way. in the end love the opposite of fear is all what we should be and become. but we have forgotten how it works. and Mr. Eker is showing how to implentate this in the business life. actually there is no difference between life and business. its all one. i thank you too for your honest comment.
Understanding this is easy. Explain it is easy. Implement it is something else. Very few can read the information written, then implement it in their life. My understanding is that we live our life in a reality defined by that which is not our intuition. Instead we define our reality with our five senses.
The logic we use doing this is defined within our left brain. And this is the reason to why we don’t succeed. We miss the intuitive information presented to us by our right brain. Somply because we don’t understand how to access it.
It is therefore impossible to understand the bigger picture that a synchronized use of both parts of the brain would giving us. If we understand reality from one perspective, how could we?
We observe why things don’t go the way we want them to be. We hear the explanation. Then we go on observing and performing reality through the model we act within inside our left brain, five senses understanding of what reality is. No wonder we are confused.
The bigger picture is our there. Bur are we willing to explore it? Or are we satisfied as it is? Change is always an option. Often we prefer to observe someone else transform before we bother look into it.
It took me a decade to understand what happen a decade ago when my left and right brain started to work as a team.
hi.dear harv.thanks a lot for giving chance to understand ourselves.however my english is poor,i understand your lesson.I read your book which is named “secret of millionaire.”I’m proud of you.
I always said actions speak louder than words. I used to have fear of change or take a risk and I did not get what I want because I use to compare myself with others or listen others saying you cant do it is too hard or impossible. Since I changed the way i think I believe in my intuitions. There is not fear who can stop me from follow my dreams. Thanks Harv for your daily advices.
T. Harv Good Coach Great Leader,Long As He Tells Me Where We’re Going I Feel Confident Showing Others How We Got There.Hhhhmmm
I Think It’s Those Inner Principles He Teaches!
How expensive is fear? I wish I had read this 4 years ago! I lost plenty because I feared whatwould people think of or say.Aah! My, my my! What a waste and what a cost fear has cost me? Thank you Harv. I guess a living dog is better than a dead lion. What was lost can be redeemed if I do not follow the path of fear.
No waste, Aristarico! It’s a gift of life to get where you are now… You always learn and experience (with the goal) to grow!
Good for you. Have a great day!
Hi HarvI attended your MMI course in Emperors Palace Johannesburg.I got alot out of your course.I purchased read your Speed Wealth book.I am highly disappointed that you said of youbuild a successful network marketing business one should than sell it.The whole purpose of building this type of business is to enjoy. the passive income
Thank You thank You thank You this is a good reminder. I lost my bussiness a couple of years ago because of my fear. I learned thanks to your seminair in Amsterdam this “That it is possible to change” I did and now I run a new bussiness without fear and it works great thank You Harv You have learned me.
Hello my dear Mr. Success Coach harv.
I’m chained to the fears of many years in prison. Sometimes been able to do and what I’ve done but never fear away from me I could do to touch liberties do all her free. Attempt fear the work done I’m not making fun of me to others.Sometimes I do not even start on this path to success, but again I would not say my life is not the same rapid job’ll give.Now pick up the decision making own course through life, and I was skeptical, but it was clear to me, reading your stuff and try to take steps to correct committed and the way I.
Many thanks
Great article Harv. We address our fear, embrace our Spirits dream, and take action as the opportunities arise. Your clarity on this point is illuminating. Happy days to you and yours as you continue to enlighten the world.
真的太棒了,每次看Harv的文章,都令人充滿能量。太棒了!
El miedo siempre te detiene o ayuda a creSER, muy buena reflexión si las cosas no están alineadas no puedes avanzar hasta el lugar que amas llegar. “Vive tu sueño” sin que nadie se interponga, gracias Harv
It is great to read the article and all the responses. we should not be fear of things because it is just a bad imagination and illusion. When we want to act on something we need to believe ourself and trust our intuition. We should keep being posive to the outcome of our action to imagine great pictures and situations. When we feel fear that means bad and negative pictures and situations are in our mind. So take them out our mind and put the opposite ones in.
Thanks for the chance for me to think after reading your article!
that´s exactly my feeling right now… and I am getting very upset with myself as I can change my mind and I am responsible for myself…. Thank you…
Wow! Thanks Harv!
This is just what I spoke about with one of my friends.. Happy day ! Judith
Aligning will, intuition, and imagination is such an art. I know I’ve spent a lot of my life not getting the balance right, and letting fear get in the way. Fear of rejection mainly. And I’m working on letting it go and moving forward in my life in a more congruent way. This article was a great reminder of why it’s so important to stay on the intuitive track. Thanks!
Great, Harv-as always!
Thank you,
Genia
You always make so much very profound sense. As a Wizard Camp attendee, where I changed how I see myself in the world – I see one reason for fear is nutritional. The effects of what we put into our bodies seems to have a massive affect on the brain. That is my observation of myself.
Great article Harv…..i want to thank you for it. Even though fear still roams around me, if i go 5 years back i can sense it’s presence in my life daily…so yes fear has cost me a lot of things.
Perfect timing for me. I’ve been so stuck in fear, this is just what I needed to get going!
Feeling happy and energized.
Thanks!
¨Love brings everything but love to the surface¨ and it is this supreme love that is the opposite of fear where Mr. Harv Eker is talking about. So valuable to implentate this knowledge to the business world or material world. In fact there is no difference between the material world and inner world! It is the human mind that has created this separation in order to control. Yes fear has been such a powerful tool to sabotage your true divine power that we have become paralyzed and DO NOTHING. I believe step by step we need to go even deeper into knowledge of cleaning and transcending this fear to the supreme love being. The west will meet Asia, north will south and this world collective knowledge will be integrated thought by thought and rise above every limitation. We are soooo overwhelmed by love that fear has taken over in order to control in stead of being real free. Thank you for initiating this lifemakeovercoaching and mindset.
La paura è una bela amica ,che fà smuovere quell’energia interna che tutti noi abbiamo ,ma che bisogna scuoterla ,altrimenti veniamo trascinati dalla delusione e negatività.
L’immaginazione è davvero molto potente ,creiamo la nostra realtà e siamo artefici del nostro quadro cambiando e ascoltando ogni giorno ella nostra vita.
grazie a tutti
When we replace fear with love that is when our lives change. We can love our lives and be grateful for what we already have and then this seems to allow space for more to come in.
Thank you for this article to remind us what we need to do.
Great article. I like to think that the solution to this handicap is : “feel the fear and do it anyway”. Practice has helped me a lot in this fight!
Harv, thank you for another thoughtful insight and a couple of “aha” moments. I attended MMI just five years ago–then made slight adjustments (and joined Peaks as a Quantum Leap member) in my life since then. I have gone through my fear “barriers” many times and continue to have them come up. Many lessons learned as I continue to grow, knowing that these are all important. I have learned that I have value without having to “do” anything.
In Love and Gratitude-David
Really love this article. I listen to your audiobook on The Secrets of Millionaire Mind on weekly basis . Very inspiring . I hope you will come to Nigeria one day. God bless.
Amazing, thank you very much Mr. Eker!
I understand completely the point, last April 19th, 2013 a vascular accident happend to my mother, therefore I was in the position to make dead of alive desition, I completely let go the fear and decide to have completely faith in God will, and she is alive and is a miracle. After that I understood Freedom!
Thank you again!
Thank you so much for your words. It helps me to keep looking for the courage!
Yes, I have a problem with this virus and trying hard to get rid of it:)
hi Harv, I appreciate getting your lessons every month, it gives me inspiration to keep going. I am working toward getting wealthy right now so I’m just going to keep working and learning. Thank you
Fear and lazyness costed me lots of good moments of my life. Some good part of my life which will never exist cause of these two…
If fear is the most expansive, to me, lazyness is the second…
Thanks fo the text. The best way to get over fear is getting out of the comfort zone.
I need to take action, your words help me a lot , i have to fight with my mind and focus, but You inspire me to take action. Tks
I can’t agreed with Harv on this topic more.
Just these past two days, for the first time in nearly two years I went for a weekend trip with my family members.
The overall experience was good except one scary thing. I had 3 big negative voices went through my entire non sleeping hours during the journey.
I was hearing left and right:
“Why don’t you find just any job to work?”, “Why did you attend those training to waste your time and money? Are they helping you making money at all?”
“Things happens in life are fated, you can’t change it”, “You should save up all your money and buy a home in this city instead”, ” “You should consider working here instead”, “Maybe you want to consider marry to the rich developer in this city, their family are very successful”, “Don’t work on any internet stuff, it will soon be obsolete trust me” etc….
I didn’t response much to any of the comments above, because I have a dream and a deep desire of how my future should be. None of what I said will going to make sense to them now anyway.
For the most part I mainly responded calmly, “Just remember what all you guys had said to me today.” (which I was referring to their non supportive, negative comments). Of course, all three of them were laughing at me when I said that.
In fact, I wish had recorded all these non supportive voices. Use it as a reminder to keep moving me forward and a motivation to get me much closer to my dream.
And now I really can’t wait for my dream to comes true very soon!
Harv Eker, reciba usted un cordial saludo.
Si señor, estoy de acuerdo con el tema que usted plantea. el miedo paraliza a las personas, no deja actuar, considero que la razón viene de las impresiones que hayan tenido las personas en el pasado.
Pero lo mejor de todo es que su concejo es importante y debemos ponerlo en practica, cambiar los habitos, desde este momento es tomar accion, frente a nuestros compromisos, metas y objetivos en la vida.
Fear killed my soul for the longest time!!i will never forget failures with it!! Loneliness, sorrow, and pain and many more!!
I look into the mirror the man infront of me said, its not right! Its not life! And he continues, go find joy, purpose n contribution!!!
I’m 54 years of age. Married to a blind man. He as well as I had always been brought up in a very limiting belief environment. Now I’m working very hard to get around this mountain and over come the obstacles, to make our lives better so we will be able to enjoy our future together without being under so much financial stress all of the time. But because of my husband’s vision, he is afraid to do much of anything to get ahead. And he tries to hold me back also, because there are too many scams out there, etc.
Hi Harv
Last year I got to know about MMI through one of my friend and it was a life changing event for him so suggested myself and my husband to attend it.
After that we started using the money jar and do lot of activities which will lead us to financial success.
Until those days i used to always brut and worry about my current situation and thats leads to lot of fear , worries, negativity .
My husband also became little serious about finances.
Great sharing and its such a wonderful experience to hear from you.
Thanks a lot and loads of good wishes to you !!
Luv
Priya
But now
Again, thank you Harv. for your significant insight and timely lessons…I know first hand that fear has held me back on many occasions. Not fear of failure because I can achieve when I am given the opportunity but for me it is fear of rejection, whether I am successful or not, and because of this particular fear I hold myself back from progressing.
Your training and support are a new phenomenon to me and I now firmly believe I can conquer this insidious trait that I have allowed to control me for so long.
My next 5 years are going to be outstanding, and it because of you and people like you, thank you so much, and watch out!
With this lesson I profoundly realized the meaning of these words: “When the will comes into conflict with the imagination, the imagination always wins.”And it is depends only on us what alliance to allow to guide our life the alliance of fear and imagination or alliance of ambition and imagination. and I’ve chosen the second. I am taking an action. 🙂
as always harv..well stated and clear. thank you..
from one a warrior and wizard…aho …and so be it.
you have helps so many harv…i am grateful wea re on the planet at the same time. naneste, my fiend.
I have been living in fear for the past 2 yrs since I lost my business
I list my hair salon/spa and have been pretty list since . Although I have a small studio of my own now . I’m missing out on what my future holds for me to build the business I have now and find that passion again . I would live to be involved in improving other business, for I have seen some major unprofessional people in this industry . I don’t know where to start and am scared of failing. Any advice?
Thanks for another great article.
I love the part about “you learn what you learn when you learn it”…..until I actually consciously put into action what I have learned…..it is only education, not application!!
Thanks Harv…needed this as I am about to embark on a project that ‘scares the pants’ off me…well said and inspiring. Thanks so much.
Nice Blog Man, A Good Read for Sure. I like the way you have explained that, I think this falls in line with the Law Of Attraction, Let me if I’m wrong. I’m currently practicing this law each day of my life. I must admit sometimes it can become hard to stay focused but what I have learned is that the more we do this the easier it will become. Thanks again.
Thanks a lot. for elaborating the “action cures fear”. really it is very helpful to me as well as all the readers of this lesson, to achieve their personal as well as social goals in their life. Thanks a lot again
Thank you.
Thank you Harv for sharing these wonderful thoughts! I would have done myself a great disservice if I hadn’t read this month’s lesson. I am determined more than ever to stay focused and bring into fruition that which I desire in my relationship, finances, career….
Hi Harv,
IMAGINATION
It is true that creation is the result of imagination. The building is constructed later, but first it is created in mind through imagination. Even though imagination is theoretical, it is first step of creation.Unless you imagine, you can not create.
FEAR
Fear is imaginary. Fear is always bigger than reality. Many fears may not actually come in life, but they stop acting. Fear is the biggest obstacle in taking action. Fear management is very important. Needs scientific training. Harv, can you suggest some fear management seminar.
Regards,
Hikmat Udhan
Wow – how right you are, Harv. And how many agree – fear stops us cold in out tracks. It is the opposite of faith – not just spiritual faith, but faith in ourselves. Have you ever thought of how much each of you and I could have accomplished if we wouldn’t let fear stop us. And yet – yes there is a yet, without the resistance of fear in our lives and us overcoming it, pushing it aside and ‘do anyway’, we would not grow.
Thanks Harv for helping people like me overcome the fear of financial success and look at life with full abundance, hope and anticipation.
What a great blog entry and so many replies – I hope you all are blessed beyond measure.
Million thanks Harv
Let’s the fear uproot by itself, be my own chance master!
Billion Thanx Harv, for reminding me!
Logical decision is ..pi is a fixed number
Imagination says .. Pie changes
Indeed pie varies from 3.1416 to 3.164
look …Aetzbar in amazon
Definitivamente el miedo nos paraliza e impide que realizemos lo que queremos lograr he decidido superalo gracias HARV por permitirme este entrenamiento ya que esta resultando positivamente hasta donde voy y creo firmemente que seguira resultando, mil graciasss…