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The Gut Never Lies: How to Master Your Intuition

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Have you ever had a gut feeling and not listened? Think about those times when, for example, something told you not to take a certain route to where you were driving to, you took it anyway, and ended up stuck in traffic.

There are other circumstances where not listening to your gut can cost you big time—like forming a business partnership that never felt right from the beginning. Sometimes the consequences of ignoring our sixth sense can have even more dire consequences.

In our culture, we don’t quite give the power of intuition its proper due. It all seems to be about know-how and doing more. Of course, knowing as much as you can about how to reach a goal can only lend toward success. Likewise, we have to act in order to get anywhere. But there are times when we could have saved ourselves a lot of headache if we had just listened to our first instinct.

We have another source of intelligence within us that we tend to ignore. It’s the inherent wisdom of our spiritual nature. It can’t be measured, but it seems directly connected to the creative intelligence of the Universe. It’s deeper, more refined, more subtle, more instinctive, and more intuitive than thinking.

Intuition comes to us generally in feeling rather than logic. When a woman thinks “This guy gives me the creeps,” it usually pays for her to listen to herself. She is drawing on well-distilled experience and instincts that are a thousand generations deep. In the same way, when someone refuses to go along with the crowd, they are relying on something more than what the world praises as “smart.” 

Ask any really successful person and they will tell you success comes as much from intuition as from the brain. How many millionaires do you think go along with the crowd, or listen to the “conventional wisdom” that everybody else is following toward sameness? If you’re not utilizing this incredibly powerful inner guidance system that is at your service 24-7, you might as well be going through life with one hand tied behind your back.

The key is to get your mind to quiet down. Meditation helps, or even just really being present in the moment without labeling things as good or bad, right or wrong. Once the mind is quiet, wisdom can have its say.

The idea is to “stop thinking.” You’ve probably experienced this unexplainable phenomenon when you were trying to remember something but couldn’t. Finally, you stopped trying to “figure it out” and later on, out of the blue, the answer popped into your head.

Your spirit knows what’s right for you. It knows what directions you need to take for your highest good and the good of others. The thinking mind is an awesome tool that’s meant to be used, but it pales in comparison to the inner wisdom of your intuition.

Trust in yourself. Trust in the Universe. Open to your higher guidance and have the courage to follow this guidance, even if it seems to defy logic, which is usually the case.

Now it’s your turn:  What’s the most powerful example in your life where it paid to listen to your intuition, an automatic reaction to a situation where—even if you doubted it at first—proved to be the correct response?  If you have not been listening to your inner spirit lately, what can you do to get back in tune with that central part of you?  Tell me your thoughts below . . .

No Such Thing as ‘Straight’

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The textbook definition of “straight” is something that has no bends, angles or curves. Can we apply that same definition to life? Heck no!

There really isn’t such thing as “straight” in the universe. At the core of everything—including us—is energy, and energy doesn’t travel straight. It travels in waves. Imagine throwing a pebble into a lake, watching the ripples gliding across the surface.

Right after you throw your pebble, someone else also tosses a pebble in the same lake, and now the ripples from that pebble collide with the ripples from yours. That’s how everything in this universe works.

People, events, actions and reactions are constantly colliding, creating new pathways, new situations, new circumstances and new actions. The chaos of life makes it almost impossible for anyone to always go “straight” to where they planned.

Some people thrive on chaos and change, but most people don’t. They get frustrated, down, and ready to throw in the towel because they usually have expectations, and these expectations are usually damn near impossible to meet.

We might as well just accept it: the road to success comes with twists, turns, ups, downs, stops and reverses. Once we really understand and accept this, we’re less likely to be deluded into having unrealistic expectations that there’s a straight line to the top. So when we come across bumps, flat tires, and raised bridges along the way, we won’t be so quick to get upset or give up.  Getting off track is normal and therefore “perfect.”

You have to expect to spend a great deal of time making mistakes—or if it sounds better—“correcting yourself.”  There’s a reason why perfectionists have a hard time being highly successful. Perfectionism is a form of fear, based on fear of failure or the fear of disapproval.

If perfectionists don’t get it exactly right, then they don’t have to finish, follow through, and move on. They get to stay stuck “until its right,” but of course it’ll never be right, so they never have to face the possibility of rejection or disappointment.

We need to consider mistakes—rather than something to be avoided at all costs—instead as “feedback.” Mistakes are our perfectly natural learning curve. They are the feedback we need to get ourselves back on track.

Then we can do the same thing we already know we need to do in order to keep moving forward: take action! Those actions will produce results, sometimes more mistakes. Then we just get that feedback, use it to correct our course again, and then take more action.

This is the non-linear cycle toward success. As long as you use this cycle—and persevere—it’s virtually impossible to fail.

Remember, we’re all ripples in the lake of the universe. You never know how a comment, observation, or minor detail can change the course of your life or another’s!

 Now It’s Your Turn!

Ground Floor, Going Up!

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“Timing is everything.”

We’ve all heard that saying, but what exactly does that mean? Is it luck, coincidentally taking advantage of a situation that happens to present itself?

The power of intuition can never be underestimated, and instinct can only help in getting your timing right. But good timing isn’t always just about being in the right place at the right time. It’s also a skill that can be learned, and sometimes, just takes a little present moment awareness.

It can be as simple as persuading someone by listening to them, waiting a few seconds to show that they’ve been heard, and then presenting your case. Or it can be as common as sense can be. For example, it’s not a good idea to plant things in the winter-time. Plants grow better in the spring.

In business, good timing means matching your product or service to the wants and needs of the current marketplace. Right place, right time. Think of it this way; business ideas and opportunities are like cars. You have your NASCAR speed demons, your beat-ups that make you worry whether or not you’re going to make it to where you’re going, and everything in-between.

If you’re trying to make money fast, are you trying to create your riches with a race car or a jalopy? If you don’t have a concept or at least one product or service that’s super hot right now, your chances of creating wealth quickly diminish.

Choosing the right vehicle at the right time is a rare and highly profitable skill that can be learned.

Unfortunately, most people hop on a trend when it’s already too late. On the other hand, being too early is no better. You have to learn how to gauge and time the market. You have to know when to get in, and when to get out!

Your intention must be to get in on a “ground-floor opportunity,” meaning demand is high and supply is low. That’s when the elevator is going up. When supply overtakes demand, time to get off the hell off!

Copy someone who is making a mint right now. You can find a new concept and do the same thing they’re doing, or improve upon it. Use the original as a proven blueprint to success. Another simple but incredibly fast way to make a fortune fast is called the Piggyback technique. Instead of copying someone else, you affiliate with someone or something that’s already a winner. It brings new meaning to the phrase “If you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em!”

It’s often faster and easier to affiliate with a company that’s already up and running rather than to start from scratch. Why reinvent the wheel? They may have exclusive products or a major distribution network in place, rare technology, or expensive production facilities already established.

Can you think of an easier way to “get rich quick” than to have the rights to a hot, highly-in-demand product, and then market the hell out of it? Of course, you’ll want to become a master at marketing, and that’s another topic we can talk about for days.

Timing is everything. If you choose the right product at the right time, your road to wealth will be decidedly faster and easier!

Maybe it already has for some of you. Please share your experiences, insights and examples of good business timing!

Fear: the Great Paralyzer

Help ButtonWhen we look at successful people, there are a variety of assumptions we can make for why they are successful. Hard work comes to mind. Smarts never hurt. Maybe they were born with advantages that other people weren’t born with.

But let’s be honest: there are times when you wonder why someone who doesn’t seem terribly bright finds success. “How the hell did they get to where they’re at? I’m smarter than them!” That may or may not be true, but one thing is for sure: however one reaches success—even if intelligence and ability weren’t factors at all—those people aren’t afraid to take action!

It’s Not All About the “Great Idea”

Lots of people have great ideas. Even more may be sharp as pencils. They can know exactly what to do. But what good is all that knowledge, imagination, and information if you’re too scared to do anything about it?

Let’s not give fear too much of a bad rap here. When mankind needed to be hyper-aware of our environment in more primal times, fear was certainly a useful tool for staying alive. We were born with the ability to fear, so like anything else we’re born with, it serves a purpose.

Fortunately, most of us aren’t typically in “fight or flight” situations like our ancestors. Unfortunately, people tend to invoke that same primal instinct about things that have nothing to do with life or death. It just seems like it when a big change or decision is upon us that moves us out of our comfort zones (even when we know financial “comfort” isn’t quite as comfortable as financial freedom).

The Protective Mind Can Hold You Back

It’s that protective mind acting like a helicopter mom, hovering over us as if every move we make will end in disaster. It’s constantly creating doom and gloom scenarios, trying to scare the heck out of us in the hopes that we won’t try anything new. It’s our own protective mind that prevents us from taking the actions necessary to reach our dreams.

When that happens, all of our great ideas are now full of uncertainty and doubt. A lot of people wait for their fear to subside before doing something. Wrong! You don’t have to be fearless in order to act. You acknowledge the fear and act anyway. Fear itself holds no real power over us.

Successful People Have Fear

Successful people have doubts and successful people worry. The only difference between those who succeed and those who don’t is that successful people act regardless of the fear. Even those who don’t have integrity or brains but who act anyway are going to find more success than geniuses with integrity who keep it to themselves because they’re too afraid to put themselves out there.

Habitual fear can be paralyzing. It can trick us into believing that we can’t act, that we shouldn’t act, that acting toward what we really want is going to lead to pain because that’s what we’ve been taught, or because that’s what happened before. You’re never going to be happy or successful if you don’t get beyond fear.

 

Now it’s your turn: What’s been some of your biggest fears, anxieties and worries that—now that you look back on it—were overblown? What was the result once you got past those fears? Where in your life are you letting fear, doubt or worry stop you from taking the necessary actions for happiness and success? Share here so others can learn from your experiences.

Remember this:  Don’t let fear ever paralyze you into inaction. Overcome your fears!

Go Hard or Go Home

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I’ve seen that mantra in several different contexts, in particular to athletics or anything with a kind of “edge” to it. It comes off a little severe, like something those guys who pound each other in cages on Pay per View would say. Train hard, push hard, work hard, fight hard. Otherwise, what’s the point?

In general, people recognize the truth in the phrase ‘Go Hard or Go Home.’ If you’re going to do something, either be the absolute best you can be or don’t do it at all. Well, not everything. You can enjoy the heck out of playing golf, but you don’t have to be a PGA player to get something out of playing. You do it strictly because you want to, no reasons needed.

Consider, though, the difference between something you do for fun versus something you’re doing for your life, like working toward financial freedom, or living more healthy. Being an average golfer is fine, but there’s no such thing as an average millionaire. You’re either a millionaire or you’re not, and quite frankly there aren’t as many millionaires as there are wanna-be millionaires.

In other words, you can’t just “okay” yourself to riches. You’re either going to master wealth, or you’re not.

That’s where the warrior mentality is critical for the mind of the millionaire. The warrior always chooses to be a master. A warrior has to! There is no other option. For a real warrior, mastery can make the difference between life and death. Not that being anything less than rich equals being dead, but the same kind of must-mentality is … a must!

Mastery isn’t as much a skill as it is a matter of discipline, desire, and commitment to taking your life to another level. Most people are not living anywhere near their potential because they’re playing in the minor leagues. Major leaguers, no matter what job or industry, are making lots of money because they’re not afraid of themselves, the work, the responsibility, making the necessary changes, of playing big, and they believe they must play big in order to win big.

Does it take more work to play in the majors than in the minors? Not necessarily. It takes more practice for sure, but sometimes all it takes are minor adjustments to your thinking and how you apply your skills in order to make big changes.

If you want to master anything, you’ll have to do at least some things differently. Your standards must change, your thinking needs to change from “This is okay” to “I can do much better,” and you’ll need to find reasons why there’s room to get bigger rather than reasons why not.

Can you be a master at everything? No, nor does anybody need to be. You need, instead, to prioritize, choose and focus on those things you really want for yourself. Whatever you choose, know that you’re going to master it or not take it on. If you aren’t willing to see your potential and hold yourself to it, then you won’t master much.

You will always get what you’re willing to settle for. The hardest part isn’t actually becoming a master. It’s deciding that you’re going to be one in the first place, and not going backwards from that moment on.

Now it’s your turn!  Are you playing in the major leagues or still down at the minors?  If you are mastering your life, what was the turning point to get you to make the shift up?  If you are still in the minors, what will it take to get you to play bigger?  Share here—someone just might read what you write and be inspired to live a better life.